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Life is boring. .

Hi friends.. .

I am very new to this forum.. Hope it helps to get my things better..
My life is getting very bore.. . feeling unsatisfied. . Because of this I get in to some health problems. . So I a m having medicines now.. . but I need to make myself bold and happy ? How to make? Any advices?

Hi, Anni89!

What sort of things would you like to be doing that you think might make you to feel better, please?

Thanks!

HI Clough

Thanks for your reply.. .

And I would like to share something with you. . Actually now I am working in software concern.. . I had a love with a guy.. . he was working with for nine months. . we both had a love. . I expressed him. . but he never did.. . but he used to cry always. . I was thinking that he might have some problems. . Like that..
Now he left me. . He is in some other place now.. . he never called back.. I loved him lot.. because of his absence I can't able to happy.. . and I can't able to talk with him too.. . my stuffs not get satisfied.. .
My parents are very sad to see me.. . by nature I am a very jolly type of personality.. . but nowadays I seems to be half minded. .

I would like to sing, dance, playing with kids.. . And I love music.. .

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Originally Posted by Clough

Hi, Anni89!

What sort of things would you like to be doing that you think might make you to feel better, please?

Thanks!

Hi again, Anni89!

I've been a music and fine arts teacher for many years. Perhaps there might be something that we could do together on this site that might make you to feel better about yourself?

Are you writing that the person with whom you shared love didn't share it in return to you?

Thanks!

Just to add to cloughs suggestion,how about volunteering somewhere,like a hospital,or children's group,giving back to the community is very rewarding,it may help distract you while you heal from the break up and give you material to write about.

Thank again for your reply.

Yes, he did not share with me any thing.. . I felt much for that. .

And I agreed to your point clough, that we could work together to make myself better. .

Thanks for your help. .

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Originally Posted by Clough

Hi again, Anni89!

I've been a music and fine arts teacher for many years. Perhaps there might be something that we could do together on this site that might make you to feel better about yourself?

Are you writing that the person with whom you shared love didn't share it in return to you?

Thanks!

Hi Annie
What I understand from what ever you have mentioned so far is that you are feeling lonely and in my view you need some one with whom you can talk and sahre you stuff
It could be anybody may be a close friend, anyone from your family or may be even your parents depending upon what kind of relation you share with them
Another thing I wolud like to tell you is that may be if you are of the right age and your family is thinking on these lines then you should seriously think of getting married and settling down with some one, because our spouse can be the best emotional support that we can ever get and just try and forget everything about the previous guy
Focus on something you like doing like music, dancing, social service anything at all whatever helps you feel better

Yes rahul.. . Now am getting OK. . I don't have the right age to marry now. . may be after two years my parents will arrange of it. .

Anyway thanks for your advice

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Originally Posted by rahluraj

hi Annie
what i understand from what ever you have mentioned so far is that you are feeling lonely and in my view you need some one with whom you can talk and sahre you stuff
it could be anybody may be a close friend, anyone from your family or may be even your parents depending upon what kind of relation you share with them
another thing i would like to tell you is that may be if you are of the right age and your family is thinking on these lines then you should seriously think of getting married and settling down with some one, coz our spouse can be the best emotional support that we can ever get and just try and forget everthing about the previous guy
focus on something you like doing like music, dancing, social service anything at all whatever helps you feel better

Okay, I have number of ideas about things that we could do together on this site. If you'd like to know about them, please reply to me on this thread.

Thanks!

Yes clough, I am interested to know, please let me know the ideas you have. .

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Originally Posted by Clough

Okay, I have number of ideas about things that we could do together on this site. If you'd like to know about them, please reply to me on this thread.

Thanks!

Hi again, Anni89!

Here are a few ideas for you to think about. Any of them are things that you and I could do together here. If you don't really know how to do one of them, or are unsure, I could teach you how.

1. Writing music.
2. Learning how to play the piano.
3. Writing lyrics to songs.
4. Writing poetry.
5. Writing a short story.
6. Doing things having to do with the visual arts, like drawing, etc.

Thanks!

Hi Clough.. .

You ideas are too good.. .

1. Writing music - Have you meant to write music as notes?
2. Learning how to play the piano - I don't have the piano in my home
3. Writing lyrics to songs - Yes, am interested in it. . Can you teach me?
4. Writing a short story - I can write a short story and I need suggestions to start.
5. Drawing - Can you teach me?

Thank you for your ideas. . I don't have any experience in doing these things. . But I am a fast learner. . I can pick up the things easily that you teach me. .

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Originally Posted by Clough

Hi again, Anni89!

Here are a few ideas for you to think about. Any of them are things that you and I could do together here. If you don't really know how to do one of them, or are unsure, I could teach you how.

1. Writing music.
2. Learning how to play the piano.
3. Writing lyrics to songs.
4. Writing poetry.
5. Writing a short story.
6. Doing things having to do with the visual arts, like drawing, etc.

Thanks!

Clough! You are such a nice man. I admire the way you care about the people on this forum.

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Originally Posted by Anni89

Hi Clough . . .

You ideas are too good. . .

1. Writing music - Have you meant to write music as notes? Yes. I can teach you how to do that.
2. Learning how to play the piano - I dont have the piano in my home
3. Writing lyrics to songs - Yes, am interested in it . . Can you teach me? It's not hard, but does take some practice and inspiration.
4. Writing a short story - I can write a short story and i need suggestions to start. Well, let's start. Just need to choose a subject.
5. Drawing - Can you teach me? Yes.

Thank you for your ideas . . I dont have any experience in doing these things . . but i am a fast learner . . I can pick up the things easily that you teach me. .

I've responded in the quote of what you wrote.

We can do any of those things. It would be a learning experience. All we have to do is to start.

Thanks!

Take Clougs advice! He knows what he's talking about! Good Luck

Yes I agree with you. .

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

Take Clougs advice! He knows what he's talking about! Good Luck

Ok clough, which one I have to start first? Please let me know. And one more thing I want to tell with you. . At present there is a problem in my internet connection at home. . It will get OK within one week. . Anyways I can see your advice in my office within a short time, then I proceed. .

Thanks for your kindness clough. . I am feeling happy to get your advice. .

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Originally Posted by Clough

I've responded in the quote of what you wrote.

We can do any of those things. It would be a learning experience. All we have to do is to start.

Thanks!

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

Clough! You are such a nice man. I admire the way you care about the people on this forum.

Well, bless your heart, Kitkat22! :)

I couldn't spread the "love" to you again so soon, after already rating you so recently!

Thanks!

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Originally Posted by Anni89

Ok clough, which one i have to start first? Please let me know. And one more thing i want to tell with you . . At present there is a problem in my internet connection at home. . It will get ok within one week. .Anyways i can see your advice in my office within a short time, then i proceed . .

Thanks for your kindness clough . . I am feeling happy to get your advice . .

Learning some basics about music and the piano would probably be the easiest things with which to start. Learning some basics might inspire you to get a keyboard of some kind. I hadn't responded to you about playing the piano because I accidentally overlooked it.

The problem is though, that we're usually on here at such different times. If we coordinate times when we're on here at the same time, things will be easier.

I'm in the Central Time Zone of the United States. What time zone are you in, please?

Thanks!

I am in GMT+5:30, Chennai, NewDelhi time. .

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Originally Posted by Clough

Learning some basics about music and the piano would probably be the easiest things with which to start. Learning some basics might inspire you to get a keyboard of some kind.I hadn't responded to you about playing the piano because I accidentally overlooked it.

The problem is though, that we're usually on here at such different times. If we coordinate times when we're on here at the same time, things will be easier.

I'm in the Central Time Zone of the United States. What time zone are you in, please?

Thanks!