:confused: I'm just so frustrated, me and my fiancé have been dating for almost 2 years, we have a baby boy on the way, but for some odd reason I've never had an orgasm, maybe I just don't know what one feels like, he keeps asking me if there's something wrong with me, lol I don't know if there is or not.. please help!

That's no good! Having an orgasam should be a big factor in anyone's sexual life. Its important to know what you like, what you don't like, and how to please yourself. I highly suggest masturbation. If you explore your own sexuality, it will be easier to communicate with your loved one as to what turns you on or off. Also it can open doors for you to explore your own sense of intamacy. I'm sure there is nothing wrong with you you must enjoy sex if you want to orgasm, but haven't had one before. I think it's a matter of knowing what you like rather than inability to climax. Maybe you could have your fiancée perform "guided oral" on you and tell him where your sensitive spots are, or if you're having sex and he is doing something you like, tell him. If you like it at a certain pace, let him know, I'm sure he'll be just as happy as you are to see you satasfied.

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Originally Posted by Lil Momma

:confused: I'm just so frustrated, me and my fiance have been dating for almost 2 years, we have a baby boy on the way, but for some odd reason i've never had an orgasim, maybe i just dont know what one feels like, he keeps asking me if theres something wrong with me, lol idk if there is or not.. please help!!

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Ok well I probably can't helpim only 17 but I have the sameproblem I have been with many guys(that probley sounds bad.. lol)and I still haven't had one myself I often ask myselfthe same thing.. so I really don't know what to say but your not the only one.. so if you find out anything you can let mekno as well.. lol.. but my friend did do a little search for me and it says that if you think about you not having one it will be a lot harder to have one so yea even my guy friends just tellme I need to stop thinking about it so much.. so maybe that's the prob just don't think about it.. comment back if you wish

Hey thanks for the advice, cause it definitely worked! I just didn't even think about it, I just kind of you know enjoyed the ride:D... Yeah and you being with many guys does not sound bad at all!! Just to let you know.. But thanks sweetie!

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Originally Posted by Lil Momma

Hey thanks for the advice, cause it definatly worked!! I just didnt even think about it, I just kinda ya know enjoyed the ride:D... Yeah and you being with many guys does not sound bad at all!!! Just to let you know.. But thanks sweetie!!

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Well I'm glad I could help a little bit.. and thanks for understanding about being with a lot of guys most people would call me a slut for it orsomethin..