So theirs this guy I like.. his name is eddy.. I've known him for years.. maybe since I was 10 and now I'm 15.. we got along at first because I was best friends with his cousin and we'd always hang there.. anyway years later we seem to have become closer.. he's single and I'm single. He's the only guy I've liked as much as I do for years.. he's the only guy that gives me that feeling.. he's so special to me.. he means so much to me and I look up to him and I care for him a lot too.. his dad and my mom have been going out for about a year lol yes that's kind of weird.. but when I get into problems he's there to help cause he's been through a lot too.. lately he's seems to talk to me more.. he asks his little sister questions about me (by the way me and his little sis are pretty tight:D so that's a plus) anyway I did something I regret big time.. I was at their house for the night and decided to do E.(ecstacy) when he found out he was taking care of me.. makin sure I had some water but not too much.. looked out for me.. made sure I wasn't hurt or anything. Since then he's been asking his little sis if I still do that drug and he's been asking questions to her like how old I am aand making nice comments about my jokes etc. when I last saw him he seemed happy and asked me a question in a flirty tone. Also when I did him a favor (burned him a cd) he was so happy he kept thanking me and telling me it was really good and complimentin it.. he even put up a smiley face too he was being super nice(nicer than usual) but I'm not sure if he likes me.. do you think he does? Is he giving me some signs? If I have any other details I think of ill post them up later
But please help me out;)
By the way he's 3 years older than me

I have an idea. :p

Why not ask him if he likes you and ask him about seeing each other more. ;)

It is worth a shot. Why not try. If you think your ready to do this. This is the only way to find out for sure. :)

Good luck.

Lol I don't think I should
I'm kind of waiting for more hints
You know to be sure

Hi Kate,
I'm not trying to criticize or anything, but the one thing that jumped out at me was the use of Ecstasy. This is not, in most regards, a very safe or predictable drug; and much about the long-term effects are as yet unkown:

http://teens.drugabuse.gov/facts/facts_xtc1.asp

As well, this drug is often taken to foster a heightened sense of intimacy. Though this state is relatively transient by nature. If you were to take this drug with any regularity, how would you sort out what your true feelings for him really are? How much of it is your heart talking? For both your own personal health, and that of any romantic prospects, please don't experiment with this substance. We'd hate to hear that something bad happened at some point. You have your whole future ahead of you.
Take care. :)

I definitely think he likes you! I went through the same thing.. I've been friends with this guy for years.. and all of the sudden we started getting closer and talking more, he always seemed worried about me and he always stuck up for me around other guys, sometimes I even thought he was flirting with me, but in the back of my mind I was thinking no way cause we're like best friends, but now we've been dating for 2 years and we have a baby boy on the way!

My wife and I were the same way. Best friends for a long time. Developed into a lot more of course. People are worried that it will change or lose what they have and are afraid to make the next step. You need to take that chanch, or you coulld miss out on something really special. You never know.

Joe

I'd personally say to just ask him. Or if you like him, try to subtly tell him that you like him. Be outgoing, just flat out ask. Its good to have things out in the open instead of tiptoeing around the bush. Also, enough with the E, that's not a road you want to go down, yea it's a great rush, so are many other narcotics, but it can kill you. Its not hard to overdose, you don't know what the chemist mixed to make that crap. You could get a pill out of a bad batch and end up dead. Besides, you can find better things to do with your time than roll. E can cause severe (permanent) depression because it drains your seretonin (happy) glands in your brain all at once, and sometimes its chronic and you may never feel happy again. Just think how life would be if you couldn't feel joy when your sweetie does say that he DOES like you. Hope this helped, and once again I say GO 4 IT!

But he found out that I liked him a couple years ago and kind of distanted himself but that was a couple years ago.. now he's closer but I'm scared to say anything cause what if it isn't what it turns out to be..
Unno what other signs to wait from him
But he seems very cool about this all
I'm really confused

Better to know the truth than give yourself an ulcer over nothing.

I think you have enough signs to show his liking towards you.
Go for it, talk to him, be straight forward and confident ;)

Oh, I think he probably likes you, but I'd urge you not to dive in head first. Go slow, and get to know each other better before you get all emotionally involved. I know you've known each other for awhile, but you're both still growing and changing, so who you were last year or even last week, may not be quite where you're at today. People who get deeply involved as teenagers often grow apart later on and great heartbreak ensues, so be careful, and don't get in a hurry. Life is a marathon, not the hundred yard dash.

He likes you no doubt. As a girlfriend? The only thing that jumps out is if you are 15 he is 18, a senior fixing to graduate and get an adult life, which I think you are not ready for.

Lol well.. he's not a senior he's in gr.11 and he's turning 18 next week

You are going about this the right way. You're not just jumping in feet first. You have a good head on your shoulders. What's the rush? He likes you and you like him. Be patient, allow the relationship to unfold at it's own pace. Then you can be sure of his feeling for you. And STOP using Ecstasy or you may miss the crucial signs when they come. Or worse, you might not be here to see them.

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Originally Posted by krazykate67

his dad and my mom have been goin out for bout a year lol yes thats kinda weird..

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Okay, I'm going against the curve here. While I agree that he might have an interest in you for this very reason you've written above I'd say that this is a recipe for disaster. What if your mom breaks up with his dad? Then he might take it out on you. Or vice versa.

What if your mom and his dad stay together forever but you two have a falling out. That's going to be a tough situation to be in if he starts bringing home other women. Given his age that's not out of the realm of possibility since he's an adult and soon to be moving into a different phase of his life.

Chuff brings up some good points here.

I must admit that I was a little alarmed to read that your mother and his father have a relationship.

I know we can't help who we have feelings fall but do you think you could be playing with fire here.

I mean chuff has only just brought up 2 possible scenarios. There are endless things that could happen.

Can I ask what you think your mom's and his dad's opinion of you two being together would be?

I just see so many possible pitfalls!

I missed that part about the mom and dad. My ooops. Yep, that could be a slippery slope. You would practically dating or going out with or marrying your brother by marriage. Lol, sorry just getting my ahead a bit here. At the same time. The closeness you feel, there is nothing wrong with that. How close are your mom and his dad? How do you think he will feel? I do not know.

Joe

I missed that part about the mom and dad, too. Consider the possibility that he sees you as a potential little sister. Doesn't sound like it to me but who knows. And like I said, just let things move along at there own pace and all will become clear.

Yeah were not related at all even though our parents are going out.. are parents have been together for a year but they don't live with each other.. their dating

Hey read your new post. If he knew you liked him a few years ago, then he must know you like him now. If he distanced himself before he must have had a reason. Since he's closer now he must have a reason. Say something like "well you know I liked you a few years ago, and i don't wanna ruin the friendship we got not, but I still like you." I know it sounds corny written down but I'm sure you can come up with something creative. One more thing, timing is everything. Make sure you tell him when u spit it out, its not an awkward moment. Take care and stay off the d*mn X!