I'm too fat to get a boy friend but at school there is this boy I like and I don't think he likes me because I'm too fat. How do I get a boy friend?:(

Ask this boy if he wants to go out. SIMPLE. You need to learn how to get some self esteem. By the way, if he says no. So what, later on ask somebody else. You went this long without one, what makes you think you need one now.

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Originally Posted by nothing2prove

im too fat to get a boy friend but at school there is this boy i like and i dont think he likes me because im too fat. how do i get a boy friend?:(

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I agree partly. As you get older, you'll notice there are girls who aren't as pretty, but it's their personality that wins people over.
Keep in mind, sometimes people just aren't interested in you, and you just have to deal with it. Also, if you are so conscience of your weight, why not trying to lose some? Ask a friend or family to help you.

Sweetie, I have seen some big girls with really nice guys and some big guys with really nice girls. Personally I think the secret comes down to how you think about yourself. People are apt to treat you like you treat yourself. Start by being nice to yourself. Even while you are working to lose weight you can look nice. You can have a nice soak in a scented bubble bath (pretend you're a movie star), use body moisturiser, fix your hair nice, wear nice colours, nothing too bright or too tight.

And most important of all wear a smile.

Sweetie there is nothing wrong with not having the ideal weight. You have to love yourself before you should expect anyone else to care about you. Just because your over weight doesn't mean that you won't be able to have a boyfriend you just have to find a guy that likes you for you. Start by accepting yourself and you will find having a higher self esteems will actually make you more attractive because you will start to present yourself more positively because of the way you view yourself.

You need to be the best you, you an be, there will always be boys who will not like someone because they don't have red hair, or they don't have blond hair, of they don't have long enough legs, or they won't have sex on the first date.

If you want to lose weight for you, ( and you really need to ) you would be surprised how many 100 lb ladies think they are over wieight, so first be sure you are over weight really, not in some unreal model plan.

So if you want to lose weight for you, not for some silly boy, then do it you. And your health.

But finding and dating, has much more to do with personality than looks,
And the boys that date only because of looks are not really worth dating any way.

First of all, no one is too fat to have a boyfriend, but it is a bit harder to find one if you really are overweight. Very few guys just go out with girls for their looks, and they really aren't as shallow as they seem. Most commonly, girls who think that they can't get a boyfriend are just looking in the wrong places! Thinking about all of the "hot" jerks that can't be content with ruling the school and feel the need to hurt other people's feelings instead of looking to guys who are considered to be friends. You also need to give them signals that you like them, so that they know they can ask you out! Also, like almost everyone else said, be yourself but BE CONFIDENT!!

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Originally Posted by nothing2prove

im too fat to get a boy friend but at school there is this boy i like and i dont think he likes me because im too fat. how do i get a boy friend?:(

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dont do anything to change yourself. stay yourself. but if you think your heavy then excirse & eat heathier. i did that & lost weight. i lost 25 pounds in 4 months. Also. maybe go up to him & tell him how you feel. tell him that you really like him & that maybe you guys should hang out soon

Those guys who go out with girls based on girls' look are not the right ones. I think you should go ahead ask if he is interested in going out with u, if not -it doesn't mean he thinks your weight is the problem, then move on, if he said it's because of your weight, then you know if he is worth of your time. AND REMEMBER, you are beautiful! You are who you are, and there are guys like big girls. Be confident, okay? What wins a guy is more than the weight, and also the heart and mind!

May be I'm not your tipe of guy but I'd like to make you forget forget about your weight and talk love. Personally what matters for me is not what somebody looks like but how he acts like.

That's a sweet thought, but this thread is one year old.

It's the personality not the size weight but go on a diet if you want but personality is all nobody should juge you on your weight!

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Originally Posted by Bluerose

Sweetie, I have seen some big girls with really nice guys and some big guys with really nice girls. Personally I think the secret comes down to how you think about yourself. People are apt to treat you like you treat yourself. Start by being nice to yourself. Even while you are working to lose weight you can look nice. You can have a nice soak in a scented bubble bath (pretend you’re a movie star), use body moisturiser, fix your hair nice, wear nice colours, nothing too bright or too tight.

And most important of all wear a smile.

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That was so sweet of you you made me realities that I am pretty and do get sad over so boy