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  • Feb 21, 2010, 06:09 PM
    whatisthis3
    Girl with boyfriend likes me
    I'm in HS
    So girl with boyfriend of two years
    I told her I liked her
    She likes me as well, she told me.
    But she said she doesn't want anyone to get hurt me or him, and that our friendship is above everything else
    And I told her I'm patient, and she should focus on her current relation ship.

    What do I do now?
  • Feb 21, 2010, 07:46 PM
    Scleros

    You're already hurting, and with your admission you now have no cards left to play. You were rejected nicely. Find another gal. If this girl had strong feelings for you and was biding her time just waiting for you to make a move, hell or high water couldn't keep her away.
  • Feb 21, 2010, 07:52 PM
    jmjoseph

    Carry on with honor and respect for your fellow man.

    You're off to a good start.
  • Feb 21, 2010, 08:30 PM
    whatisthis3
    Haha aren't you a hardware expert?
  • Feb 21, 2010, 08:46 PM
    Scleros
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by whatisthis3 View Post
    Haha arent you a hardware expert?

    Yes, and I seriously doubt your hardware is getting anywhere near hers. ;)
  • Feb 21, 2010, 10:00 PM
    whatisthis3
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Scleros View Post
    Yes, and I seriously doubt your hardware is getting anywhere near hers. ;)

    Wow my 16 year old friends told me the same joke too. And your how old?
  • Feb 22, 2010, 02:21 PM
    Scleros

    Ancient, but obvious opportunities for humor know no age boundaries.
  • Feb 22, 2010, 09:25 PM
    Sally Olsen

    Don't worry about her too much. You're both in HS and education is important. You are so kind to let her concern about her own relationship. Just support her and carry on with your school work... it'll work out in the end.
  • Feb 22, 2010, 10:20 PM
    whatisthis3

    It's humor "knows" no age.
  • Feb 23, 2010, 10:42 AM
    Scleros
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by whatisthis3 View Post
    It's humor "knows" no age.

    This is what happens chasing skirt instead of focusing on school.

    Obvious - adjective
    opportunities - noun, plural
    For - preposition
    Humor - object of preposition
    know - verb
  • Feb 23, 2010, 10:54 AM
    ChuLove19
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by whatisthis3 View Post
    i'm in HS
    So girl with boyfriend of two years
    I told her I liked her
    She likes me as well, she told me.
    but she said she doesnt want anyone to get hurt me or him, and that our friendship is above everything else
    and i told her im patient, and she should focus on her current relation ship.

    what do i do now?

    Okay. From a girls point of view, I was going through the same thing. A guy liked me for so long but I was with a different guy for 5 months, and he finely got the nerve to tell me that he likes me. I liked him as well of coarse because I knew him longer, But the point is I liked the friend longer and more and broke up with My boyfriend for him, but then the guy friend stopped talking to me afterwards. So like I said my point is, you should really think about it and make sure you truly like her because if not and she chooses to go with you and finds out that you just wanted her because she was with another man than I would leave it alone because you don't want things to affect your friendship.
  • Feb 28, 2010, 07:13 PM
    whatisthis3

    Anyway
    I cuddled with her,
    She said she felt guilty about it, and started to not talk to me.
    Then she started to talk to me again, even more, then
    I was with her this weekend, and we hugged a lot, and held hands with each other and stuff.
    And she told me that she feels bad that she might be leading me on, and that I deserve someone who can fully commit, and I said I don't want anything more than this friendship.
    What do I do now?

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