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  • Feb 21, 2010, 01:40 PM
    fpittman14
    I conceived between August 11-18 and had sex with someone in July and someone in Aug?
    My doctor said I conceived between August 11-18 and I had sex with my ex boyfriend in July and then had sex with my current boyfriend the beginning of August so who is the father of my child, and I'm 29 weeks pregnant?
  • Feb 21, 2010, 02:01 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Your time of conception is an estimate from time of last periods and are estimated, The number of weeks pregnant is estimated from that and/or from the size of the fetus from an ultrasound. So if you had sex within a week or two with different men, it is not possible to know for sure until the baby is born and a DNA test is done.
  • Feb 21, 2010, 03:33 PM
    JoeCanada76

    It is impossible question to answer until the baby is born and there is a paternity test given.
  • Feb 24, 2010, 12:35 PM
    fpittman14
    I conceived between August 11-18 and had sex with someone in July and someone in Aug?
    The doctor said I am 29 weeks and 4 days pregnant as of today, and I am scared that my current boyfriend isn't the father. I had sex with my ex-boyfriend in July sometime and my last period was July 31st-August 5th, I found out I was pregnant and I conceived around August 11th-August 18th sometime the doctor said, so I was wondering who was the father of my child is my ex-boyfriend or my current boyfriend?PLEASE HELP ME!!
  • Feb 24, 2010, 01:01 PM
    justcurious55

    Do you remember when exactly was the last time you had sex with your ex? And when you started having sex with your current boyfriend? From what you told us, it sounds like it most likely is your current boyfriends. In totally ideal conditions, sperm can live in a woman's body for nearly a week. So if you conceived on the 11th, that could have been from having sex as far back as about the 5th of August. So if you hadn't had sex with your ex since July, it doesn't seem like it would be possible for it to be his baby. If there's any doubt, only a dna test when the baby is born can confirm whose baby it is.
  • Feb 24, 2010, 03:00 PM
    fpittman14

    I think I had sex with my ex around the middle of July and I had sex with my current boyfriend the first time on August 6th because I remember that date...
  • Feb 24, 2010, 03:01 PM
    justcurious55

    Sounds like it was that first time that got you pregnant. :)
  • Feb 25, 2010, 09:21 PM
    fpittman14

    What that me... justcurious55
  • Feb 25, 2010, 09:44 PM
    justcurious55

    Huh?
  • Feb 25, 2010, 09:54 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Due dates and age of the fetus are estimates based on info you give them. At best it is give or take a couple weeks.

    So you will know when the baby is born and you get a DNA test
  • Mar 13, 2010, 12:57 PM
    fpittman14
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    I had sex with my ex-boyfriend sometime in July 2009 and then I got my period July 31st-August 4th 2009 and then I had sex for the first time with my current boyfriend August 6th or 7th 2009. The doctor said I conceived around August 15th 2009 and my due date is May 8th. When I went and got my ultrasound the dates did not change. So I want to know who is the father of my child?HELP!!
  • Mar 13, 2010, 01:25 PM
    fpittman14
    Who is te father of my child?
    I had sex with my ex-boyfriend sometime in July 2009 and then I got my period July 31st-August 4th 2009 and then I had sex for the first time with my current boyfriend August 6th or 7th 2009. The doctor said I conceived around August 15th 2009 and my due date is May 8th. When I went and got my ultrasound the dates did not change. So I want to know who is the father of my child?HELP!!
  • Mar 13, 2010, 01:51 PM
    hheath541

    If the dates didn't change, then why are you worried about it? Sounds like you conceived the middle of August, which would make your current boyfriend the father.

    If you want to be completely sure, you can get a paternity test after the child is born.
  • Mar 13, 2010, 02:02 PM
    hheath541

    You really need to stop starting multiple threads saying the same thing. It make more work for the mods when they have to merge threads, and can make it confusing for those who are trying to answer you.
  • Mar 13, 2010, 05:18 PM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by fpittman14 View Post
    I had sex with my ex-boyfriend sometime in July 2009 and then I got my period July 31st-August 4th 2009 and then I had sex for the first time with my current boyfriend August 6th or 7th 2009. The doctor said I conceived around August 15th 2009 and my due date is May 8th. When I went and got my ultrasound the dates did not change. So I want to know who is the father of my child?HELP!!!

    You will know who the father of your child is after you take a DNA test. There is no way to know without a certainty of a doubt until that test is taken.

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