3 nights ago I had sex with a guy, we were only doing it for about 3 minutes bcoz it started to really hurt me, later on noticed blood in my underwear.. am I a virgin or not? I'm so confused please help.. xXxXx

If he inserted his penis into your vagina, you are no longer a virgin.

I thought he had to break the hymen though? Xx

Not necessarily

Ohh :/ okaay then thanks xx

Yes, penetration of penis into vagina = no longer a virgin.
It doesn't matter if it is 2 seconds or 2 hours, you are no longer a virgin.

The broken hymen meaning anything to do with virginity is only a myth.