Ask Me Help Desk - Creepy Doctor

Hello,
I am a victim and am seeking answers and a possible solution. While examining me, my doctor went through my purse. I went in complaining of a sinus infection and found it odd that he would have me lay on my right side while he prodded at my back. He asked unrelated repetitive questions. I heard something unzip, some rifling (minute or 2) and another zip. I quickly sat up and saw him tossing my purse onto a chair. This cause my coat along with my purse to fall off the chair. He nervously handed me my coat and left the room. When confronted, he denied everything. I called 911 and filed a police report, but an arrest was not possible. I am concerned that there are MANY unsuspecting victims out there.

My question is: Is there a law stating that a physician must have a nurse present when examining a patient? (My friends have always had a nurse in the room during their doctor's visits.)

Any complaint by a patient would result in a "he said, she said" argument.

I am sick over this and cannot accept that there is no solution. How can I go about resolving this?

I have written those who deal with medical misconduct, posted blogs, filed a claim with my insurance, but I am afraid that nothing will come of this. If they know they can get away with this atrocious behavior, then what is to stop them from acting on these perverted impulses?

PLEASE HELP.

I would like to offer this -- you are not alone in confronting others in their outrageous and unacceptable behaviors. You have done all that you can which is sadly more than most would do. It was the right thing too, despite how it looks at the moment. The police visit is on record and should the doctor turn up with ummmmm "other complications", it will come up. What you might not realise is there is a solution in the works and you were a part of it, but it may take some time before the solution is reached. We are living in strange times where cause and effect are a bit disconnected. I know I am a bit frustrated by the relaxed nature of our culture too but even that may be an all-in-good-time kind of change on its way to better things. In the meantime know that your keen awareness served you well and will continue to. What helps me when my patience seems to run thin in this way is to remind myself on a big picture basis that "good as but one enemy and that is evil, but evil has two enemies, that of good and of itself." I hope that helps a little.

I am a bit confused.

What exactly did he do?

From what I gather he looked in your purse? While that was not right, how is that a crime? Did he take something from your purse or what?

And no, a nurse does not have to be present when you are being examined.

You can file a report with the AMA also.

I am also confused. The way you described it, you really has no proof that the Dr. went through the pursue. You could be possibly wrong. But if you must, the only thing you could have done is to file a report which you did. As more reports are filed against him, police may take things seriously and may start an investigation. In that case, you would be vindicated. However, if you are the only one who submitted the report, this would be ignored.

A confusing thing about your post is that you would call "911" instead of calling local policy. 911 these days are for emergency involving injury and serious crime, etc.. You also have "written those who deal with medical misconduct, posted blogs, filed a claim with my insurance," etc.. Aren't you tad overreacting? Could it be possible?

File a report with the American Medical Association. Call the local Better Business Bureau to report his unethical actions. Send a letter to the local paper, if they'll let you. A nurse doesn't have to be present, but if you ask for one for your comfort level, they should always comply. If not, don't go back. If there are other doctors at the clinic, call them and let them know your side of the story. I'm so sorry this happened to you. Sadly, doctors sometimes take advantage of their patient's trust. Another thing- was he asking you any questions about cigarettes, perscriptions, etc? My friend lied to her doctor and said she quit smoking and didn't. He asked her if he were to look in her purse, would he find cigs. She then admitted she did. Could he have thought you were lying for some reason about meds that you were on or something? It still is no excuse, but maybe there was a misunderstanding if you were a new patient. Could he have mistakenly thought you took something out of the office? Either way, he's a jerk. Check with friends and relatives to find a good doctor.

Stop and think about the situation... maybe your purse was on the table in the way and he had trouble closing the zipper and then tossed it and it fell. Then he felt uncomfortable about the situation.. there are a lot of problems out there that can cause sinus problems.as a side effect.

But if you feel it is like you said... and you were uncomfortable... remember.. a person may be older than you or in a position of authority... but you have the right to ask for a female nurse with you in an exam room.

I agree calling 911 especially in the daytime under those situations, is uncalled for.

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Originally Posted by sophie722

... I am sick over this and cannot accept that there is no solution. ...

Oh, there is a solution. Get another doctor. Clearly the police did not feel that there was sufficient evidence to prosecute him (for attempted theft, I imagine). But relax. Apparently nothing was taken. So relax, you are not really damaged.