How to make sure she won't hit me again?
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I live with my girlfriend shez 42 and am 20 . So last week we went to her familys house and I can tell they didn't agree on our relationship because inaddition to her parents not buying that shez a lezbo ( only because she was married b4) they also were shocked because of the age difference between us ,but we LOVE each other and that's all that matters!! So, I was mad and I started making smart *** comments whenever I felt like they were attacking me.finally I couldn take it anymore so I I insulted her mom needless to say the word, so all the way back home she wouldn talk to me , and when we got home she was like you know what I have to put up with when defendin you every time , n bla bla bla bla and defendin our relationship without you acting like a brat so I told her the truth about what I think of her witch of a mom and we started fighting even more! And then for the first time she started hitting me ( spankin) and not no not the erotic version she didn't pull down nethin but she was serious and we both are not into these kind of things so it was very serious, -__- it hurt me because she was hitting so hard and I told her to stop repeatedly but she didn't she FORCED ME down like physically used her weight to pin me down my wrist is bruized now ! I really love her and I don't know what to do now shez never done that before and I don't want her to do that again , but I can't forgt what she did either I mean I haven't spoken to her ever since and she hasn even tried to apologize or nethin its like she doesn't even care anymore, I cried a bit when she was hitting me and after she was done, and it didn't seem to matter at all to her , its was embarassin , humilating and painful to be honest but she doesn't seem to care ! I don't know what to do or how to speak to her about this ! I want a genuine apology even from her mom because am starting to think this was her moms idea, since we have fought before worse than this yet she never did such thing , so what do you think I should do , and don't say break up , am madly in love with her,do you think maybe she should take anger management class or is it not that serious? I don't want to leave her over a 1 time out of rage incident, what to do? How to make sure she won't do that again?? Shez really a very nice and loving person and never hit me before. I want to make sure she won't do this again , help.
Ps. No kinky responses, thanks
Does this make sense at all ?
Hello,I posted earlier a question in which my girlfriend hit me after being verbally abusive to her mother,today she talked to me about it but unfortunately she didn't apologize nor promise anything, on the contrary, she said it was all my fault and that I embarrassed her in front of her family. I told her that what she did was physical abuse and she told me that what goes up must come down and that I had it coming when abusing people ( her mother ) I only set myself to be abused as well. And then she said that what happened was not abuse , and that am making a big deal out of it , and that she would never abuse me .
I told her that I don't tolerate this type of physical behavior and she told me again to stop it and " its not like i slapped you or broke your nose" .
She just doesn't seem to understand nor want to admit that what she did was wrong and warrant some kind of counseling or something for her in order to control her emotions and anger.
My question is do you by any chance get her point of view? And also how can I point out and clarify to her that she does need to fix her attitude by seeking professional help , as I sincerely want our relationship to continue?
Thanks.