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  • Feb 18, 2010, 01:38 PM
    helper911
    Wemons health
    I have this question its really imbarrasng for me to talk about this but here I go. I am a yonger female an I seen to have an issus with my brest nipples. Its like there not there,nothing sticks out like a nipple should its just smoot. The only time it seems like my nipples appear are in the shower or when I'm taking my bra off. And this is very imberrising and uncofortable for me to undress infont of my boyfriend. Someone said I my just be that there not done growing an they haven't poped out yet I'm not sure if that's it or no. PLEASE HELP ME!
  • Feb 18, 2010, 02:20 PM
    helper911

    For me this is serious.
  • Feb 18, 2010, 02:40 PM
    justcurious55

    I'm not sure I'm understanding what your question is.

    How old are you? Are you complaining that you don't have breasts at all? Or about your nipples? Your nipples shouldn't be hard and pointing out all the time. Only some of the time, like when you're cold for example.
  • Feb 19, 2010, 07:40 AM
    Aurora_Bell

    I find it a little concerning, that you said some one told you, that you may not be done growing, but you are embarrassed to undress in front of your boyfriend... Why are you undressingin front of your boyfriend? I would also like to know how old you are.
  • Feb 19, 2010, 08:00 AM
    jmjoseph

    People are different.

    People have different looking body parts.

    Now go be as smart as you can.

    Go work on something that you CAN change.

    And keep your clothes on around your boyfriend. At least until you are ready to be a parent.
  • Feb 19, 2010, 12:40 PM
    helper911

    To answer justcurious55 question. Its not my brests I have thoes I'm a b36 it's the nipples
  • Feb 19, 2010, 12:45 PM
    EmoPrincess

    How old are you
  • Feb 19, 2010, 05:06 PM
    helper911
    14
  • Feb 19, 2010, 07:32 PM
    justcurious55

    What are you doing undressing in front of your boyfriend when you're only 14?
  • Feb 19, 2010, 07:38 PM
    EmoPrincess

    Sweetie, there is no reason for you to be undressing in front of anyone. Honey listen to me, no matter how you feel now. If you have sex with him now, there is almost a sure thing you will regret this later
  • Feb 22, 2010, 01:22 PM
    helper911

    I have sex with him an I won't regret it
  • Feb 22, 2010, 01:33 PM
    Aurora_Bell

    Oh dear...
    Although I do not agree with a 14 year old child having sex, I do hope you use protection. Being an un-wed, single teenaged mom is not a way to start yours or a babies life. Anyway I know that is not the question you are asking. You breasts probably aren't fully developed yet, that is why your nipples look different. If you are really concerned then go and talk to you doctor. Is there any reason you feel the need to have sex so early? Does your mother know you are having sex? What are you using for protection? What would you do of you got pregnant? Your body can't be fully developed, so I find it hard to imagine that you are having sex purley for the enjoyment. I feel that this has something to do with your jaded view on your body.
    Do you mind if I ask how old your boy friend is? I know you won't listen but at 14 there is no way either one of you are ready for sex or the consequences that follow. Please re consider this.
  • Feb 23, 2010, 12:11 PM
    helper911

    Well you know what it's a little late for that we really ike each other an no matter what happens I what regret it he has rocked my worled. I didn't post a question 4 everyone to be sayig this I posted his question 4 help and to fid a answer
  • Feb 23, 2010, 12:22 PM
    justcurious55

    It worries me that you seem to be unable to write complete sentences, or even complete words, and you're having sex. Are you at least using protection? Do you know how to properly use protection?
  • Feb 23, 2010, 01:02 PM
    Aurora_Bell

    I have answered your question hun. No one can see what you are trying to explain, so for the best results you need to talk to a doctor. Make sure to inform him that you are having sex. But my best guess would be that because you are only 14, your breast's haven't fully developed just like the rest of your body, sexual organs included, your nipples look different, or under developed.
    Listen, at 14 you have nothing to compare "rocking your world" to. PLEASE be smart. How old is your boy friend, and why do you feel the need to have sex now? We aren't asking these questions and advising you against because we are out to get you. A lot of us have been down this road you are on, and have had to deal with the consequences and like any mature,responsible adult would do, we are trying to help you from making the same mistakes!

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