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  • Feb 17, 2010, 04:06 PM
    longhairdntcare
    Am I pregnant?
    Hi there. Let me start with the details.
    I'm 16. I have a boyfriend (which I've been with for 11months) & I'm sexually active (don't judge me). Anyway! Something has been up lately. I haven't really gotten my period. Well I spotted really light. It was so light that I didn't need to use a pad. I think it was cm? I don't know. It started pink, then brown. It only would show up when I wipe. I also forgot to mention that it started around the time my period was supposed to show up. Anyway, I've had a bit of cramps around that time as well, and still do a little now and then but they're very slight, nothing serious. I'm not really experiencing any pregnancy symptoms. I don't know if it's too early or not but yeah. Can someone tell me what's wrong?

    And we've been at it through out our entire relationship, don't you think I would've gotten pregnant sooner? If anything..
  • Feb 17, 2010, 04:13 PM
    tickle

    Longhair, no I won't judge and no one would here. We just want to help you in this journey. We don't know you, or your medical history but I do suggest you visit your doctor for a proper medical examine if you think you are pregnant. At l6, you should be more aware of your body and really not having sexual activity to jeopardize any plans you have for your future in the way of education.

    Tick
  • Feb 17, 2010, 04:16 PM
    J_9
    Unfortunately, we cannot diagnose you over the internet. If you haven't taken a pregnancy test yet, it's time to do so. Remember to use first morning urine as the results are more accurate that way.
  • Feb 18, 2010, 05:21 PM
    longhairdntcare
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tickle View Post
    longhair, no I wont judge and no one would here. We just want to help you in this journey. We dont know you, or your medical history but i do suggest you visit your doctor for a proper medical examine if you think you are pregnant. At l6, you should be more aware of your body and really not having sexual activity to jeopardize any plans you have for your future in the way of education.

    tick

    Thank you for your answer.. & also, is it possible to be pregnant & yet, not have any symptoms at all? My last period was January 10, 2010. I've got nothing. Or maybe I just don't notice.. What are the other possible causes for this problem?
  • Feb 18, 2010, 05:22 PM
    tickle

    Longhair, you had better go to your doctor and be tested properly to make sure and rest your mind.

    Tick
  • Feb 18, 2010, 06:40 PM
    pointlessoblio

    Back pains and pain while urinating could indicate an STD like Chlamydia.
  • Feb 18, 2010, 06:47 PM
    justcurious55

    Pointless, what was the point of your post? I'm not understanding what that has to do with the OP's question?

    Longhair, there's lots of reasons you might be missing your period. But like the others mentioned, a pregnancy test and talking with your dr is the only way to know which reason it is. And it doesn't matter whether its your 1st time having sex or your millionth time having sex, there's always the chance of pregnancy.
  • Feb 18, 2010, 07:01 PM
    pointlessoblio
    Cramps (as in back pains), spotting, can be signs of Chlamydia, not pregnancy. That's the point. Take a pregnancy test to be sure.
  • Feb 18, 2010, 07:14 PM
    justcurious55

    I see. Thanks for the clarification.
  • Feb 18, 2010, 07:31 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    If you are having sex, ( even with protection) you can become pregnant, ** did not see if you were using protection or not.

    If you are not, and not pregnant, you do need to get on birth control and also use a condom for extra protection if you are sex active

    But there is no "one set of things" that happen when you are pregnant, some may not even realise they are, others are a lot ore obvioius.

    Without a Pregnancy test you will not know for sure
  • Feb 19, 2010, 11:53 PM
    longhairdntcare
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by pointlessoblio View Post
    Cramps (as in back pains), spotting, can be signs of Chlamydia, not pregnancy. Thats the point. Take a pregnancy test to be sure.

    Cramps as in menstrual cramps

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