My boyfriend live 7 hours for me.. he lives with his mum and I've live there with him there before but he mum didn't like me and treated me like crap, so cause of that I had to move down south to my mums he would have come but he doesn't like the way my mum argues with her boyfriend. Anyway its been 7 months since I have lived with him and out of that 7 months I have only seen him for one week. I sick of beein without him, but I dontno what to do cause I haven't got the money to go up and get a house and either dose he! We have a very stronge love between us but I just don't no what to do any more!! Can anyone help me please!?

Familiarity breeds contempt.
Maybe you are better off.
When you are far from each other ,
The heart grows fonder.
Time heals all aggravations.

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I suggest you get a good education, so you can work to afford the things you want, and need. As you see when someone else takes care of you, they make the rules.

All you can do is be as well prepared to take care of yourself as you can be, and don't get pregnant or come down with STD's.

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Please help me! My ex boyfriend has text my boyfriend and told him this big BS story ( sorry about the swearing) and my boyfriend believes it and broke up with me! But it wasn't true but he believes it and that's what hurts me the most but I can't just brake up with him my ex is a good talking artist but how do I convince my boy friend of that??

Tell your boyfriend your story and if he still chooses to believe the ex over you, then you have no choice but to let him go. Maybe him and your ex will make good couple since he want to leave a nice girl like you for believing lies.

If your boyfriend,or ex, chose to believe your previous ex and took that as a reason to break up with you,I think you are well rid of him.

You deserve better.

I agree with Amicon, if he chose to break up with you and listened to your ex, how much did he think of you. You are well rid of him! Consider it a blessing!

Sounds like the relationship was very fragile in the first place. He broke up with you without hearing your side of the story? He broke up with you because he didn't believe you? Sounds more like he never really trusted you.

No trust = No relationship

I suspect that even if your first ex didn't tell your recent ex that story, he would have broken up with you eventually anyway.

If anything, why don't you figure out why you had so much mistrust with your recent boyfriend in the first place. Seems like there's information missing.

You must have trust to have a good relationship. If he believes the ex over you, then you need to move on.

Just out of curiosity, did the story told imply that you couldn't be trusted or something along those lines?

Why do you want a guy, who would believe another guy, who obviously has a hidden agenda?

If he is that easily influenced against you, he wasn't that into you in the first place.

Don't be mad at the ex, be mad at the boyfriend who just dumped you.

Was not much of a boyfriend if he would first even read a text from your ex, and then believe it.

Next letting a story a ex say ruin a relationship means there really was not one anyway.

Good that you got rid of him early

After merging your threads you clearly had enough issues to break up before this ex got in the picture.

Me and the current I guess ex boyfriend now, we had a very good trusting relationship. I think the only reason he believes him is because he doesn't no how much of a good story maker he is. That night that I was getting accused of I was at a friends house and as I was walking to the shop to call a taxi he was walking to his sisters that was around the corner, and in just that little time a little bit on info he has turned into this big story arghh! I have message on my computer from the ex telling me he is going to tell him something to ruin my life.. I have never done anything bad to deserve this I just don't understand