My husband is jealous of my relationship with my 19 year old son. He now doesn't want to go on weekends away with him anymore only with me and says he doesn't want our daughter living with us when she finishes uni as he says she's against him as well.

I wonder do you spend a lot of your free time with your son?

Could it be that now the children are getting older he was hoping to spend more time with you and do things with just you?

Your son is 19,I'm sure he has lots of outside activities,school,work his own circle of friends as well.

Family holidays are nice,and the odd weekend away,but its nice just to be a couple as well.

Kids need to be on their own and you need to spend time with your husband, alone. It doesn't mean he doesn't love them, he just needs time with you.

Clarify "jealous".

What is he doing? What is the basis for the way he's feeling? Is he insinuating an inappropriate relationship or is he just saying that you spend too much time together? How long have you been married? Are either of the kids biologically his?

A little more info please...