My boyfriend proposed me six month ago.but now after having sex he told me that he is not interested on me any more.he is not enjoying our sex life.he is not satisfied with me.he abuse me every day and also slang me with bad words.now he want to break up with me.what can I do now??

.. . He abuses you everyday ?
You should marry him right away, I'm sure you'll have a wonderful life together with an abuser.

He doesn't love you hun, be with a man that loves you.
That's your answer. Be happy, be with love !

You thank your lucky stars that you're going to be rid of the jerk.

You don't need a disrespectful idiot in your life.

Find your selfrespect and dump HIM.

My girl, dump the idiot jerk, unless if you want to live a miserable life and unhappily married. They guy is a half a man, you deserve better, stay away from him. I know you'll feel used since he wanns dump you after sex, but my girl just let it go, the guy totally don't love do not force yourself on him

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Originally Posted by misskoninika

My boyfriend proposed me six month ago.but now after having sex he told me that he is not interested on me any more.

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Prototypical jerk move. Now that he got the sex there is no need to keep you around.

As another poster stated, you get out of this situation as you deserve better. Pray that you are lucky enough to not be married yet and that you can rid yourself of such a pathetic excuse for a BOY.

You can keep him out of your life would be my only suggestion for you.

You should be so very thankful that you are rid of him. You deserve someone that loves you. He didn't love you, he was only using you to get sex - once he got it he bolted to find his next adventure.

You walk away. Be glad that you found out his horrible personality before you got married. Because a divorce would be much messier than a break up.

You have another option, if you choose to take it. But be aware that it's a lot harder than killing yourself for no reason. It involves you to heal through the pain and forgive yourself for for giving your heart to one that never deserved it. That you gave it freely shows you are a good human that cares, but were merely deceived by a user.

You must never forget your past, but learn from it, and teach yourself in the future.

It may hurt now, no doubt, we all get hurt, but we humans heal very well after we deal with the pain. You have to deal with that pain by being good to yourself, because as we move through that pain, we eventually heal. So will you.

Its not your fault you were deceived by a deceiver, but if you take the easy way out, he wins again, because you deprive the world of a good human that cares. Don't do that. We need good people who care.

To answer your question, NO, bring harm to yourself is not the right thing to do. For yourself, and those that love you.

We all know your pain, but there is a link in my signature to the stickies which out lines the keys to healing, and if you read them, you will see many of us have felt your pain, and done what it takes to be healed through hard work, and pain. You are not alone as many of us have chosen the harder path to be happy, and over that pain.

Do this the right way, no matter what it takes and you will get all the help, support, and love we all have, to get you through this dark time in your life. Trust me, its hard now but will get better, My word on it.

What goes around comes around!! Tel him this words when you see him and end the relationship. One day he'll meet someone who's going to make him feel the same pain he's causing you. You are a great lady with true love, and certainly the idiot doesn't deserve any of your love. Remove everything that reminds you of him, that includes his numbers, his boring love emails, mmss, sms's and etc and move on with your life. The guy of your dreams is waiting for you out there so stop waisting time with this jerk, empty headed, he is totally not worth it. Show him he is a jerk and stupid, he will remember your love one day. The guy was after your body, and he is an idiot not to realise that you are a loving, caring, and special lady on this planet and woman like you are not easy to be found. Show him he is not worth crying for, do not cry for a stupid guy. There more you stress about him the more you make him happy. He wants to see you suffer as if he is the only guy around, DO NOT GIVE HIM THAT SATISFACTION. Don't YOU DARE GIVE HIM SATISFACTION

One simple comment.

You deserve so much better.

One answer, get out, before your dead!