Started way to fast, no want friends for now
Back in November, met this woman who is going to school and also works night. We hit it off very well, became more and more infatuated with each other to the point we were telling each other how we were starting to feel with each other. Then in mid January, we did wind up having sex. Then things got a little strange. A few days later she said that things were going to fast and I did talk to her and she calmed down some. We didn't have sex after that. Then about a week and a half later, she started asking me a lot of quesitons about sex and what I like and I was honest and she was honest with me. Saw her a few days later, no sex, but cuddling, then the following Sunday, she would like to be friend for now due to stress of work and school. She said that she really does like me, doesn't want to lose me and regardless of her feelings can't have a relationship right now. Do you think she is having a commitment issue, is it the stress of all that, or trying to be nice and let me go? We still talk a lot, and she does say things about meeting people and such, so guess I'm fairly confused. She did have a 5 year relationship that the guy never wanted to get married then another that viewed her as a baby factory for him. How can I show that I'm not that and I do want to get married and have a family? I haven't been jumping up and down wanting to get her to see me all the time or doing things all the time. Should I keep showing her that I do care for her and be respectful and nice and learn about her as a friend first, or is this short relationship just that, short term?