Hi
I'm planning a baby. Earlier I had a miscarriage and now after almost 4 months I an againg tryng for a baby and I'm trying for 3-4 months but I'm nt getting pregnet I have done all the tests and everything is normal but still I'm not able to conceive what's the matter and one more thing I want to know is that if I am planing a baby and when should we stop intercourse and wait whether I'm pregnet or not n I am in panic everyone says not to worry but I can't stop worring about this I as want baby

Can you, please, type in proper english? Text speak is not allowed here, and will get you very few responses. Most people simply ignore posts when they lack all punctuation and every other word is misspelled.

Hi
I am planning a baby. Earlier I had a miscarriage in Feb 09 n then Docter advised not to plan for anothrer 4 months... then in June 09 we planned again but I could not conceive, then I met a gynocologist and she took some of my test one of which was TORCH and there was some minor problem for which I took medicine for one month, during this period we again tok precautions and didn't plan. After one month it was normal and then we planned but its almost 3 months since we are trying contineously but I am not able to conciece. My all reports are normal . People says not to worry but I can't stop worring about this I as want baby

Stressing about wanting to be pregnant won't help. If everything is normal, give yourself time (three months isn't much time) and relax. Enjoy being with your partner.

Why would you write that way in your first post if you have the ability to form coherent sentences? :eek:

I had a miscarriage back in June and me and my husband just now got pregnant just be patiance and it will happen it was like seven months of trying

The average couple can take 1 - 2 years to get pregnant. Three months is nothing.

Have you considered trying an ovulation kit? It will tell you the most optimal times to have sex in order to conceive.

As Cat said, stress won't help.

Just relax, it will happen when it happens. :)

Ovulation test would be good to use I try to count mine and of course the month that I am late and have no clue when ovulation accured I ended up pregnant lol

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Why would you write that way in your first post if you have the ability to form coherent sentences?? :eek:

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I am sorry for your loss. However, it can take up to a year or more of actively trying to conceive. You have only been trying for 3-4 months. That's not very long.

I understand wanting to have a child, but remember that this baby will not replace the one you lost. Take time to grieve your loss.

There is apsolutely no reason to stop having sex when you are trying to conceive. But try and keep the fun in it. As soon as you make sex all about getting pregnant and no longer the connection between your husband and yourself, it becomes a chore and starts to stress you out more. Which in return makes it harder for you to get pregnant as well.

That's pretty much what happened to us, and even after a year we hadn't gotten pregnant and very frustrated. What did help in the long run was taking a vacation and deciding to lay off trying for a while but not start on birthcontrol either. So if it happened it happened.

A lot of women say going on vacation helps, and makes the whole situation less stressful.

Oh, and a herb called red clover could be helpful as well. I can't vouch that it was what helped us get pregnant. However I was taking it for a month in August, and when we found out we were pregnant and conceived then, it might just have been that little bit extra. You can get it at any natural health store, and is only $7 a bottle. Doesn't hurt to try does it.