I'm a guy. I'm bi. This guy (call him N) added me on myspace. We both go to the same school and I could sense he was hitting on me. We talked a couple times and then he asked me to cam with him. We do and then he tells me how big his "junk" is, and we show each other. He then asks me if I want to hook up with him the next day at school in a bathroom stall. He says he's straight, but he tells me I should have anal with him.

We meet at school and walk into the stall together. He grabs my ant then we hear someone so we wait. He whips my out and gives me head. I do the same to him. He pulls me up, and then kisses me. But like full on kisses me. We finish and then he rushes out.

We text later and we're going to do it again. But when push comes to shove, he bails and says he wants to hang with friends.

I see him after school and all he does is turn around but doesn't say hi or anything.

He texts me later and we set up another meeting. I was going to go to his house on Monday, but he wanted me to go then, but I couldn't because I was on a date with a girl and he knew that too.

The next day, we cam for like a minute and then leaves and says he has to go change. After that he never talked to me again.

I sent him a message and he finally responds telling me that he feels weird and doesn't want to do it again. He tells me he doesn't want to talk to me a lot anymore because he wants to forget what happened because he "needs to figure some out."

I don't know what to do? He tells me he liked it, then that he didn't. He tells me he doesn't like guys, then that he likes their aggressiveness.
And I find out that the day I couldn't go over to his house, he makes out with this girl (which he likes but won't go out because he doesn't want to "labeled").

I can't get over him though! I can't forget the kiss. I've kissed other people and I forget it. But I can't forget when he kissed me.

What should I do? Should I just wait and see? Or try and talk to him?

HELP!

Sounds to me like he used you Buddy , leave him alone and put it down to experience I'd say.

Don't pursue him , that just makes you look needy and a push over.

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Originally Posted by isaacIDK

He says he's straight, but he tells me i should have anal with him.
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He's lying , straight guys DO NOT do anal with other guys!!

I was feeling that too. I don't like him. And his friend just told
Me he's confused about his sexuality

Here's an idea, don't worry about him. Forget him. Like you said, he's a random guy, he's not going to feel an obligation to you, and you to him. If you don't like him then leave it be. There's no point in worrying about it. There's plenty of random people that will make out with anyone (no offense or anything).



I think it's funny that you said you can't forget his kiss, but then later you said you don't like him. If you don't like him then don't worry about him. And clearly he doesn't want to see you again. This could be part of the reason you still have him on your mind though, because you know he doesn't want you. People want what they can't have. I think you want to know why more than anything.

Give the poor guy a break, leave him be.

Aww thanks! Yea it's true. I can't have him, so I want it. Man thanks!

He used you, take it for what it was worth. Sorry about it, some people are just harsh and don't care about others feelings

So does that make him like gay or bi or something?

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Originally Posted by isaacIDK

So does that make him like gay or bi or something?

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Is this really important to you?
This guy just used your body and you are here wondering if he is this or this?. He ignored you .
Doesn't worth it!Move on.

um he just texted me saying he didn't try and it take advantage of me lol. And that he didn't just hook up with ms, that he's just feeling guilty.
umm random.

By the way I don't like him. We were friends before all this. Not best friend but we would talk. And he's going through some of the same stuff that I went through went I realized I liked guys too, that's y it's important to me.

He seems very confused... Maybe you should just give him space and leave him alone and if he wants to talk about what happen or what he's going through, or even cares about what you did he'll come around.

Then you should understand his confusion, as he is trying to define himself, and you were his experiment.

He will in his own time, but for now just forget this one stall stand. Don't confuse sex, and lust for interest, or the promise of more.

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Originally Posted by isaacIDK

um he just texted me saying he didn't try and it take advantage of me lol. And that he didn't just hook up with ms, that he's just feeling guilty.
umm random.

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by the way I don't like him. We were friends before all this. Not best friend but we would talk. And he's going through some of the same stuff that I went through went I realized I liked guys too, that's y it's important to me.

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