Well I seen my boyfriend's brother at the mall on Saturday. I was getting out of my car when he was walking around from me, so I sent him a message and I was like Hey ****! I seen you at the mall, I was going to speak but you were gone when I turned around, by the way nice car I might have to steal it lol. Then I said well all right I hope all is well with you okay later. He replied and said "**** with me". Now I'm not too good on ghetto slang terminology so what was he trying to say?Like what was he saying or was he trying to be rude to me? Thanks in advance!!

Umm. Don't worry about it?

Okay, Thanks!

Kind of hard to tell what he said when its in stars, but since its your b/fs bro, I also wouldn't think too much into it as well.

He might have just been playing around with you also in response to your joking text message.

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Originally Posted by Sweetgirl10

Well i seen my boyfriend's brother at the mall on Saturday. I was getting out of my car when he was walking around from me, so i sent him a message and i was like Hey ****! I seen you at the mall, i was going to speak but you were gone when i turned around, by the way nice car i might have to steal it lol. Then i said well alright i hope all is well with you okay later. He replied back and said "**** with me". Now im not too good on ghetto slang terminology so what was he trying to say?Like what was he saying or was he trying to be rude to me? Thanks in advance!!!

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Actually I think it was really rude of him. When guys say stuff like that, they are in a way testing you to see how you will respond. YOu should tell your boyfriend about it... he knows his brother more and should know more of his intentions and can confront him himself. Don't let any guy no matter who he is talk to you like that. Really... I have 2 bothers and like more the 10 guy couzins... ive seen it all. Be a lady... no guy talks to a lady that way... Its definitely not your fault but don't let him get use to that way of speaking to you...

Thank you. I fully agree.

You he seems kind of ignorant to me.definately say it to your boyfried

Thank you. I seen my boyfriend today and I brought it up but I didn't tell him about what his brother said,I was kind of hesitant about it. But I will be sure to tell him. So, it will not come up in the future and my boyfriend gets mad @ me for not telling him at all.

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Thank you. I seen my bf today and i brought it up but i didnt tell him about what his brother said,i was kind of hesistant about it. But i will be sure to tell him. So, it will not come up in the future and my bf gets mad @ me for not telling him at all.

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You exactly save yourself an argument. It might not be anything but get it sorted for your own peace of mind

Okay. I will call him tomorrow morning, because he is busy throughout the day or just get him to come over so we can talk about it. Your right, we have already had enough drama already and almost a yr for us now.

Did the brother know it was you? He may have been having a bad day and snapped at something that to him seemed like an annoyance.

There are many different reasons for his reply. Try not to build it up into a huge matter. Just stay calm when you discuss it.

Yes. He knew it was me. Whenever I hang out with my boyfriend and his brothers they would all joke around with me. That particular one, the last time I seen him was like "oh thats sister in law right there". Plus, I know his ex girlfriend and I hooked them back up, so I guess that's just how he talk. But I straightened him out. I just didn't tell my boyfriend yet.