Me and my friend are going for my thirteenth birthday to get our cartilages pierced.. and I am super nervveous.. should I be ?

Is this something you actually want done? Or is your friend pressuring you about it? When me and my friend went to get it done, I was too excited to be nervous. We took some tylenol or advil before. And were a little sore after. And I couldn't sleep on that side of my head that night. But as long as you care for it properly after and keep it from getting infected, you should be fine.

Yes, I really want too.. I just don't know if my ears are really sensitive

Do you have any other piercings? Generally the cartilage is more sensitive than the lobes, but not usually unbearably so.

I only have my lobes. But she already has one cartilage

If you get pierced with a gun you can run the risk of damaging your tissue. People at claire's or wal*mart aren't trained to pierce. Find a piercing studio in a state that will allow the piercing of minors and have it done with a needle- you'll be much happier with the results. It'll be professional and it'll heal a lot quicker.

No I don't think so I have had about 4 cartalige piercings both tragus top of both ears (I don't know what they are called but I know its cartalige) lol but my 2nd tragus started to grow out so I took it out

The tragus is the small flap of cartilage in front of your ear. The top of the ear is often referred to as either cartilage or a helix piercing.

Find a studio, don't let them use a gun, and relax. I have my tongue, bellybutton, ear lobes, and eyebrow pierced. Don't be nervous sweetie, just relax and find a qualified piercer! If you are able to, though I doubt it, the best place I'd recommend is Kutters Edge. I don't know if they have multiple locations, but the one I use, is amazing