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We had a wonderful 6 months then out of the blue.. three weeks go by and nothing from him.. I broke the ice.. he said that he got scared. He was falling too deep for me.. the level of our relationship changed.. I became scared to trust him with my feelings.. and recently I txtd him and told him.. I don't like feeling like a annoyance then a friend.. but we can't be just friends.. I love him.. but I haven't contacted him.. its been almost a month.. he know the Colts are my football team.. he sent me email last night in regards to the colts.. I haven't replied.. is this the bestthing I should do? I am just done with the games.. floating in and out of each others lives.. want to be more than that to him. Feel like I need to stand up for me now..

You do need to stand up for yourself,so not replying is a good choice.
Stay no contact,you will get over him with time and patience.

I think your right, leave him alone to figure out what he wants to do as breaking up is not how healthy adults solve their problems.

Read the stickies at the beginning of this forum and see how No Contact works.

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He said that he got scared. He was falling too deep for me..

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:confused:YES and is it a reason for ending the relationship?!
I feel like it is beautiful and refreshing to fall in love.
He should feel blessed that he found someone to love so much and who would love him back.
This is a stupid excuse to break up.Don't be blind...

It's been a month - you haven't heard anything but this one text. Trust your intuition, you'll just feel worse if you contact him. Best to move on and let go of any friendship until you feel less wounded.