Hello - I posted a while ago about a situation with a hook up buddy, but I'm pretty sure that's over. I don't know what to do now, because I try thinking of who else to go for, but no one compares. It's hard, because the guy I'm moving on was exactly what I wanted and needed, like the perfect person for me, and no one compares now. What do I do to move on?

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Originally Posted by Skaskank90

Hello - i posted a while ago about a situation with a hook up buddy, but im pretty sure that's over. I don't know what to do now, because I try thinking of who else to go for, but no one compares. It's hard, because the guy i'm moving on was exactly what i wanted and needed, like the perfect person for me, and no one compares now. what do i do to move on?

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You starting on such a wrong road dear.
NEVER EVER compare someone to another, its so not fair.
Sort out what you want and then decide, Don't compare we are all different individuals.
And remember NO ONE is perfect!

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Originally Posted by Krs

You starting off on such a wrong road dear.
NEVER EVER compare someone to another, its so not fair.
Sort out what you want and then decide, DONT compare we are all different individuals.
And remember NO ONE is perfect!

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Totally agree with all of this advice you were given by Krs..

Also, don't try to run into a new relationship too quickly as this would be a rebound and would not work and would definitely result in unhealthy comparisons being made.

Yeah this horrible.

You really need to work om ypurself. You're really confused - these hook up buddies are totally and completely unhealthy.

Slow down there - love doesn't come running to you!