I am a married women in love with a married man,he said I am special and he kissed me long.. but he's not ready for a relatiionship comitment and he knows we are not going anywhere if we were together because we are married.. I want him back , I keep on calling him but he doesn't answer , and I send him messages on his mobile and he doesn't reply.last time I say him or talkd to him was month ago.. how can I win him back to my arms, I know he likes me very much though am younger than him 18 years...

This man has told you he does not see a relationship with you,he is ignoring your calls and texts.

I think you should take a moment to think about the impact of your actions,he is married and so are you.

The problems in your marriage can be overcome if you are willing to work through them,councilling and therapy can give you the tools to save your own marriage.

Do you love your husband?

Stop calling this man,it would seem by his not responding to you he is not interested.

You both are still married. He is trying to do the right thing. Now it's your turn.

Stay out of his life. He is married you are married!! Stop stepping out on your spouses. If you want to be free leave your husband, but don't mess up someone else life because the grass is greener on the other side. It sounds like he is only telling you what you want to hear. In other words leave him alone.

Why don't you ask your husband these questions? I'm sure he'll give you the right answer.

He's married you are married-off limits double whammy.
Take a hint-he's not returning your calls,so he is doing the right thing.

Time to work on your marriage.

Two cheaters hooking up.

I can't tell if you're the perfect couple or this is about to blow up.

I think a better question would be, what's wrong with your current marriage?

Could he have found a better booty call to cheat with??

AT best he merely considered some sex perhaps, but he seems smart enough to know to stay away.

After you divorce your husband and are single then you can start dating again. But still not him since he is married.

Cheating on your own husband is bad enough but having no moral concern over trying to destroy the mans marriage, perhaps he made a error in getting with you at first, but he knows this is wrong.

Leave him alone! If you're unhappy in your marriage - end it.

Cheaters never change. Neither you or this man are trustworthy or have any honor. Even if you do get back together and "commit" to each other it will be built on the ruins of failed marriages and lies. This kind of relationship will not last and you two will eventually either cheat again (Most likely) or you will split and start over having ruined love and relationships for lust.

Karma is a real bear and the hurt you inflict upon your husband today will someday be repaid threefold.

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Originally Posted by Devorameira

Leave him alone! If you're unhappy in your marriage - end it.

Cheaters never change. Neither you or this man are trustworthy or have any honor. Even if you do get back together and "commit" to each other it will be built on the ruins of failed marriages and lies. This kind of relationship will not last and you two will eventually either cheat again (Most likely) or you will split and start over having ruined love and relationships for lust.

Karma is a real bear and the hurt you inflict upon your husband today will someday be repaid threefold.

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Well Said!!

Are you really doing this? I smell a troll.

Your question is, 'how can you win him back', and the answer is, you cannot, because you never had him in the first place.

When you can accept that, come clean to your husband, and try to work through this mistake you have made. It isn't impossible to repair what you have done, but it will take a lot of hard work.