Okay... I have this friend that I guess I lead on by accident. I use to like him, but I do not anymore... I thought his feelings for me had passed when we were talking tonight... We were asking questions like "Have you ever been Bi?" or "Have you ever kissed someone?"... Then he asked if I ever thought about making out with him... I said I had a dream once... then I asked him the same question... He said that he thinks about me sitting on his lap, with my legs wrapped around his waist, kissing passionately, and us in our underwear... UGH... Im 13!. I don't want a relationship, nor do I want my friend thinking sexual thoughts about me... I can't control him, and I Don't want to hurt him... But that info he just gave me was grrroooossss... I don't want ANY guy thinking about me like that... Its disturbing!. Any suggestions on how I can tell him he is a perv pig without hurting the stupid boys feelings!. Thanks:)

He is probably just a horny teen ager
It is just a stage this will pass. Stick it out, he'll be back to normal in a year or so.
Just

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Originally Posted by IamMeyouAreyou

he is probably just a horny teen ager
it is just a stage this will pass. stick it out, he'll be back to normal in a year or so.
just

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Honestly?. Because this is new to me... Last year he was a sweat Christain that I loved, and was my best friend... But in the last few months he goes slutty on me in mid conversation... I hope so...

The best way to not lead him on is to stop getting on the phone with him. If you are not comfortable with the way he is talking to you and treating you, then ignore him and do not have a conversation with him at school either.

How much older is this guy anyway? Guys don't get "normal" after a while. They can talk like that at any age and it's up to you to protect your mind and body.

Ok, but he is one of my best friends, I can't just not talk to him, But I'll try... And he is the same age as me, five months older than me just about... Thanks...

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Originally Posted by Lexilulu

Ok, but he is one of my best friends, I can't just not talk to him, But I'll try...And he is the same age as me, five months older than me just about...Thanks...

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It's up to you to set boundaries. If he makes you uncomfortable with something he says, say, "Stop! I do not want to hear that from you." If he does it again, tell him you are leaving and then hang up or walk away. Be firm and be strong. You are doing this for him as much as for you.

Ok, thank you, this really helps:)