Why do you think people have relationships? Because it feels good to share things with another people. However when we do it for a long time, we usually forget some truths about life.

There is no such things as "the one", rare, luck, coincidence. The real thing that good relationships have is the hard work from the both sides.

We live in a very large world that have millions of people in it that you can love. Believe me there is another thousands who you can love and can love you.

Maybe there is very important high quality characteristic properties of the person who dumped you. Don't forget the most important thing for having a good relationship is caring about it, working for it, trusting it, (both sides must do it) nothing else... If your mate doesn't do it anymore, it is time for you to not care about it anymore.

Don't push someone to be with you, find someone wants to be with you.
Really find her! Don't just sit on that chair, read this post and do nothing. Go out there join activities, meet some new people have friends and find an another "the one" :)

The true happiness has nothing about finding a girl that will live with you till death, it is about working in things that make you proud of. It could be a relationship, a life dream, being master at something, improving yourself, quitting bad habits, making new goods...

Ps: care about the ones who cares about you IN THIS VERY MOMENT :)

I like the points you are making.

In addition,in order to be happy in a relationship,we need to be happy with ourselves.

This post is really good.

I like this - Don't push someone to be with you, find someone wants to be with you.

Good post, and only your 5th one. VERY GOOD!

Excellent post - a whole lot of truth in what you're saying!

Thanks for sharing it.

Thanks everybody

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Originally Posted by Romefalls19

Good post, and only your 5th one. VERY GOOD!

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I read more than I wrote ;)
Not just read but lived

Well done Persistence. I like your style. Welcome to AMHD. I gather the main point of your post is this: Just because a relationship ends/or is over doesn't mean everything else is over. We don't stop living after a breakup...

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Originally Posted by kctiger

Well done Persistence. I like your style. Welcome to AMHD. I gather the main point of your post is this: Just because a relationship ends/or is over doesn't mean everything else is over. We don't stop living after a breakup...

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Yup, and we start making our life better after a break up. I think we(ok not all of us but some) understand that life should/could be better, after breakups.

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Originally Posted by Persistence

Yup, and we start making our life better after a break up. I think we(ok not all of us but some) understand that life should/could be better, after breakups.

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Not to discredit your point, but I know the ONLY reason I understand that now is because I went through the heart break of a breakup. When I first broke up, I had no conception of life getting better and I was a mess. I think "we" understand that because we had to go through the bad times to get that enlightenment. I definitely wasn't born that optimistic. :)

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Originally Posted by kctiger

Not to discredit your point, but I know the ONLY reason I understand that now is because I went through the heart break of a breakup. When I first broke up, I had no conception of life getting better and I was a mess. I think "we" understand that because we had to go through the bad times to get that enlightenment. I definitely wasn't born that optimistic. :)

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Neither I, :D I didn't know if I will be OK when I was going through the broken heart situation, same as you. But the world knew it :)

Great post persistence.