Is he just not that into her?
My best friend has a boyfriend, but they're having problems and she's thinking of leaving. She has a guy friend whom she likes and she thinks that he likes her, too. However, when she has asked him if he wants to be with her, he avoids a direct answer. He doesn't want her to leave her boyfriend for him because he says he's not the type of person to break up relationships. He also says there are no guarantees that they'd work out as a couple. So my question is, is he just not that into her? Would a guy who truly likes a girl be more excited and would say that he'd love to be with her if she were single? He thinks she'll never leave her boyfriend, he had a difficult breakup in the past, they've hinted at relationship in the past. But he refuses to say what would happen if she were single, one way or the other. She has even told him that if he doesn't like her, he should just say so and she wouldn't get upset at all because it's impossible to be liked by everyone. But again he doesn't say one way or the other. He wants to continue the friendship.