I have a dilemma that is causing me a lot of grief right now. I have a good, male friend who pretty much knows everything about me. We've been friends for over a year now... and nothing more. Recently, I've found myself being attracted to him, thinking a lot about him, and I'm starting to think that I might be falling in love with him. I do care for him deeply as a friend, but my feelings are clearly starting to cross "friend territory." The problem is that he has a girlfriend. I would never make any move to affect his relationship with his girlfriend... I've been trying to stay away from him and not talk to him much, but that is difficult cause our paths keep crossing and it is starting to hurt to be around him or thinking about wanting to talk to him, while knowing it is not the best idea. He's starting to notice that something has changed, and has asked me "what is wrong." I've been evasive in my responses and always respond with something like "i'm tired; I have a a lot on my mind; I'm busy etc. etc." Any suggestions on how to get over this guy that is unavailable to me, and who I happened to care about before I started having romantic feelings? I know that I might just my friend here, if I can't keep my feelings in check. It's causing me more and more pain here and don't want this to turn into some unrequited love story! Help!!