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  • Jan 21, 2010, 05:02 PM
    inneedofhelp11
    Help, my sister is being bullyed!
    My little 13 year old sister goes to school everyday and is eather hit or taunted. When she goes to the teacher, they say that they didn't see anything. What I also don't get is that there is a no bullying pollisey. ( sorry for my miss spellings.) My first thought was that there was a secret crush going on but it is just violence. I am just a worryed sister and need something to tell her. Please, no mean comments. Thank you.
  • Jan 21, 2010, 05:06 PM
    Wondergirl

    Tell her to talk to her parents about this.
  • Jan 21, 2010, 05:08 PM
    inneedofhelp11

    Thank you but her parents are way to busy in work to want to be anywhere near her.
  • Jan 21, 2010, 05:15 PM
    jaysie90

    Well if the parents are not being involved, you can go. Go straight to the principal's office. While you are in the office ask for a student handbook(they should always have one). Go to the bullying policy and then show it to the principal. Let him know what is going on and that the teachers do nothing about it. Hopefully he well make sure that further bullying will not go on.
    Good Luck :)
  • Jan 21, 2010, 05:16 PM
    jaysie90
    P.S. How old are you?
  • Jan 21, 2010, 05:18 PM
    inneedofhelp11

    I am 23. She talks to me over the phone
  • Jan 21, 2010, 05:18 PM
    inneedofhelp11
    p.s. why do you want to know?
  • Jan 21, 2010, 05:29 PM
    jaysie90

    If you were a teenager, or around your sisters age, they wouldn't take you seriously would they?
    That's why I asked.
    However, you are an adult, and can be taken seriously. So go to the school and make a stand for your little sister.
  • Jan 21, 2010, 05:42 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Also your writings and questions are at a very young level, Is English not your regular language ? In general most have the opinoin you are not over 13 yourself
  • Jan 21, 2010, 06:19 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    Also your writings and questions are at a very young level, Is English not your regular language ? In general most have the opinoin you are not over 13 yourself

    Bingo! I had guessed 10 or 11, maybe younger.
  • Jan 21, 2010, 07:22 PM
    Kitkat22

    Been there , done that just this week. First of all don't be afraid to tell someone in the school office. I did, my son was beaten up by four boys and no one did anything. I went on the web and looked up the laws against this. Go to the principal!! Document everything. If this doesn't work call the school attorney... My imformation from the web and school conduct handbook had just the imformation we needed. It has stopped. If you are old enough contact the main office in your state and make sure you stay cool and calm, but emphatic when you talk to these people.
  • Jan 21, 2010, 07:35 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Bingo! I had guessed 10 or 11, maybe younger.



    And I deleted all of their other posts for being so childish
  • Jan 21, 2010, 07:37 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    and I deleted all of thier other posts for being so childish

    Her/His name might say it all -- "inneedofhelp11"
  • Jan 23, 2010, 10:33 PM
    Lexilulu

    Wow, Im so sorry for her... I use to have a girl beat me *I still have scars* when I was 11... Then one day I got a REAL serious look, Looked her dead in the eyes, and yelled "Don't you DARE touch me again!"... This isn't really something I would want her to do but when she did touch me again, I slapped her in front of ALL her friends... I earned so much respect that day that now we are best buds... And I had one girl when I was 12 throw me into a trash can *No Joke, So embarrassing* I hit her, and then Stood by the teachers side... Whenever she attacked me for hitting her, It was in front of the teacher *I played that out PERFECTLY thank you* and then she was suspended for 2 weeks... Idk if this helped or not;)
  • Jan 23, 2010, 10:54 PM
    Kitkat22

    Sometimes we have to fight back as long as you don't use guns or any other type of weapon

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