Hello, I'm 16 and doing really well at school. Im getting A*'s in two Gcse subjects and the rest are mainly B's, coming out with the odd C. Recently I slept with my boyfreind of a year, because it finally felt right to do so, after to being together for 11 months and a week. I wanted I'm to wait for me, and he did. We are more in love than ever, and we are very happy. I want to go onto further education and eventually go to univestay. I can't tell my parents about this problem because they are so against young teens having sex, and I know I can not turn to my mum because she will force me to sit down and talk to my step father about it to, and that's something Im not prepared to do . The shamefull truth is, Im 16 and I mite be pregnant. I've always been so careful with contraception and my boyfreind I the only one I have been with in this way. I am worried and concerned, because after we'd finshed having sex, I came off him and the condom had gone. I found out a few seconds later that it was inside me, I had to pull it out and it was trully humilating. I am frightened that I am pregnant. I am going to my GP tommorw at my health clinic, the problem is I have no idea how to ask for an appotinement and what to ask for, plus Im afraid they'll judge me or laugh at me, or lecture me. All I want is some help. I do not want to be pregnant, and I don't want my mum to be dissapointed in me... I don't want her to know.

If you are pregnant, you will have to tell your mom eventually. When you go for an appointment, you just ask if they do pregnancy tests. And don't worry about being embarrassed in front of a doctor. Also, I wouldn't worry about being pregnant until you know for sure if you are pregnant. Take the test and go from there.

Worrying about being pregnant will not make it go away if you are, and freaking out is a waste of time, until you know for sure, it's not worth fretting and stewing over. If the test comes back negative, I suggest learning from this experience. Sex=babies, and until you are ready to have a baby, you shouldn't have sex. Sex needs to be treated as a serious thing- it is fun, yes, but it's purpose is for reproduction- creating offspring, not just for sport or recreation. Not just that, but you're only 16, not only is it just wrong for someone so young to have sex- it's also illegal in the US. I suggest abstaining until you are at least 18, if not until you are ready to start a family.

I know how you feel. I got pregnant when I was 15. I really thought I was not pregnant. But I was. Now my little girl is 16 months old.

When you go for your appointment just ask your doctor. If your parents come in the room with you just ask them if they could leave that you had a private question for the doctor. You have the right to talk to the doctor alone. Just tell her you think you might be pregnant. The doctor will ask about if you have missed a period and then probubly take you to go pee in a cup and test for it. Its scary I know. But just ask. Once you find out if you are or not you can go from there. But remember at the end of the day if you are pregnant its your baby. You have the right to keep it, put the baby up for adoption or have an abortion. Look in to your options if you r. if there's one thing I regret doing when I was pregnant was just I was so scared I never look at my options I just did what my parents told me to do.

First things first.. I found out I was pregnant three days before my seventeenth birthday so I've been there. It's not the end of the world actually. Sure, you probably should have took more precautions but if you are pregnant.. there are options. I thought my mother and father would kill me. Not to mention my dad is bi-polar. Your parents love you. They will be there for you no matter what. When you see the doctor.. tell him/her straight up, you think there may be a possibility that you are pregnant. You don't want to not find out because of fear because you could harm your un-born child if you are. Have faith and stay strong. It really isn't as hard as it seems.

Don't worry if you are then you have 3 choice

1.keep it
2.adobtion
3.aportion


Take a test then if you tell someone like family or a friend :o


I would keep it but its you are you ready

Xxgood luck xx
Advise,online

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Originally Posted by onlinehelp

DONT WORRY IF YOU ARE THEN YOU HAVE 3 CHOICE

1.KEEP IT
2.ADOBTION
3.APORTION


TAKE A TEST THEN IF YOU TELL SOMEONE LIKE FAMILY OR A FRIEND :o


I WOULD KEEP IT BUT ITS YOU ARE YOU READY

XXGOOD LUCK XX
ADVISE,ONLINE

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You REALLY need to stop giving advice!

Some hard, shake you to reality advice.

You felt you were old and mature enough to act like adults and have sex. ( was any protection used at all? )

So now you have to face the results of the choices you made. Sorry, the I can't talk to , does not cut it for mature adults, we have to do what is needed and what has to be done even if we don't want to.

If you are, you will have to sit down with mom and talk, and deal with where you are at in this