hey my name is riyaad and I'm 14 years old, even since may 3rd 2008, I have fallen in love with this beautiful girl named marie. Before we we're friend, and the last week of April, we had spring break and I went over her house and she confused she's in love with me and on the 3rd of may we made it official. She's so beautiful, long black hair, beautiful face, adorable smile, she's my princess. We've been through so much, and had so many good times together. I could truly say I love this girl. We call each other everyday, every morning she wakes me up, we text, call each other, talk to each other until we go to sleep every night. We both go to the same school, same grade, I walk her to every class, she gives me kissies and tell me she loves me. She doesn't talk to other guys, so that's not the issue. Okay well she controls me, she's the dominant one in the relationship. Recently she has been getting mad at me for everything. Everything she yells at me and then tells me its my fault I ruined my own day. I don't feel loved anymore. I just got off the phone with her and she didn't tell me she loved me. She wants her space from and feels like I lock her down too much. I don't know, I feel she's drifting away from me. I love this girl, and I know she loves me . But she's not the same she has been before. =[
sometimes she could be so lovey dovey then she could be so mad and hate my guts.

I'm sorry to say this, but you are much too young to feel love. I believe you truly care about this girl; but, love? Love is complicated and you have to have a certain amount of life experience before you can say you found it.

Clearly, you are infatuated with her; and she, she doesn't love you. When you're in love, you do not control or dominate your partner. This in time you will learn.

You're 14 little man. Let her go, learn a lesson and think of yourself as that much wiser. :)

I agree with Jre14. You are young. I remember being 14. Always thought I loved the guy I thought was so wonderful and cute. And then I got older. I am only going on 21, so I am still learning. But, with every relationship that passes, I become wiser. I feel pain, I may cry, but I move on. And the part about not being in love with someone if you feel the need to dominate them, I definitely agree. That is how I know when I don't love the person I am involved with. If I don't love them I am controlling and bitter (mean). When a person means a lot to you, you treat them like a precious jewel that will break into pieces if not taken care of properly.

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Originally Posted by ButterfliWingz

When a person means a lot to you, you treat them like a precious jewel that will break into pieces if not taken care of properly.

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Yes indeed.