I am 21 and quite exhasted on my search for that big o. I heard of the ky intense but I'm allergic to gylcerine and glycol so that's an out. I can't achieve this not matter what I've tried and to be honest I'm about out of hope. Should I see a doctor about this? Could it be a problem related to my post traumatic stress disorder? Any suggestions? I'm open.

Thanks

Hippie:confused:

Do you mean orgasm? You're a big girl, you can say the word.

Now, many women NEVER have a vaginal orgasm, but some women find clitoral orgasms quite easy.

Have you tried exploring your own body to find what pleasures you?

There are a number of factors that contribute to some women not being able to achieve an orgasm. Rather than trying to climax with a partner, try it alone. The post tramatic stress disorder may play a role in it. There are many women who are unable to experience an orgasm. Self-esteem, confidence, comfort, all play roles in your ability to climax. Only you know what you like, maybe giving a partner detailed intructions would work. Very few women are able to climax with only vaginal penetration, so maybe include outer "stimulation" for more excitement. Good luck on achieving your "o"