I was with this guy for almost 3 years. He broke up with me last September. Since then I haven't contacted him, he hasn't either. He broke up with me once more in the past. I still love him so much my feelings have not changed at all and not one day goes by without me thiking about him. It has been very hard for me to not contact him at all but I am told that it is the best I can do. We were good friends before we became a couple and I miss him so much. Please help me and be honest but nice! :)

It is good that you are not contacting him. Even though he broke up once before and came back, I would consider it permanent. I have to say that two break ups means that you two are not very compatible. Once you realise this break up is for good, you can begin the healing process. It is not wise to hold out as if he might return. That is not noble or healthy and only works in movies starring Juila Roberts, no wait, she was the Runaway Bride, I meant Meg Ryan. I am sorry for your loss.

I don't think you should ever contact him again cause if he actually don't want to, you'll become such fool just to chase him round the clock. Find someone new who can escort you till the end of time, not the one who just inquires.

I think you really should go on with your life. You need to try to get over him. First loves are always the hardest and at times I still think about my first love and I've been married 11 years. If it's meant to be then it will happen. Giving space is the right thing for now.

It is time for you to move on. To think about a person everyday that is no longer in your life is going to ruin you and you will not have a happy future. It might be easy to say, but you need to occupy yourself and do things that will keep you busy and start thinking about yourself instead of somebody else that is not even there.

Joe

You're only chance at this point is to move on and hope that you run into each other. If he thinks that you are still carrying a torch, he only feel sorry for you at best. Let him go. If it was meant to be, you'll meet again. If not, at least you have good memories.

Sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear.

HI. I have the same problem your in but I'm still staying in contact with my ex. We have been together for 3 years and she left me last September and is with another guy but I still love her and miss her and want to be with her I suggest that u contact him and soon. Just because u've broken up 2X's doesn't always mean it can't work u just have to try my ex broke up with a few times but we still tried because the love was still there so I say try at least 1 last time before its 2 late like me.

It can you help to think about the things that you like about him and that also made the relationship good. Next think about the things that you don't like about him and that made the relationship bad. Then you will know more about the combination of things to look for in someone else and will have a better chance of a successful relationship. It will help you to heal from your hurts if you feel more hopeful about the future instead of mourning the past.