My best friend moved away like last summer to Australia and I know she has a better quality of life now and I couldn't be happier for her and I know I get to write her and stay in touch but its not enough . I really connected with her and I miss so much god so much . I felt she was a real friend, some one I could really talk to and really understood how I felt and I know I can talk to my family other friends but they just don't get it.. and I don't want to tell her how much this effected me co I don't want to upset or think that I'm stupid. But I just ache to see her... yet I'm so happy she's happy..?

Were you ever romantically involved or were you just close friends?

If you want to hold onto that friend, email, IM, call, text, write, and otherwise continue to communicate.

I have friends who I have not seen in a long time. We maintain and even improve our friendships by continuing to talk.

Yes, it'll be tough. Don't pretend otherwise. But just because she's not *there* doesn't mean she's not there for you, if you know what I mean.

No were not dikes exuse me and I know I can can write her but you just don't get it OK

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Originally Posted by anonymus me

no were not dikes exuse me and i know i can can write her but you just dont get it ok

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I think you may have misconstrued the original response here. There is no way to discern from your post what sex you are, so when we ask questions it is so we can answer with a more realistic approach.

As for missing your friend there is NOTHING wrong with that. It is an unfortunate part of life where we lose the people we care about the most... we grow apart, move away, lose touch, whatever. I hope that you can maintain contact with your friend and continue to build stronger relationships around you at home. A friend is still a friend, regardless of where they are geographically located. Be strong and good luck.

You also shouldn't be afraid to communicate your feelings to her. That's what friends are for, and I doubt it is easy for her either.

Thank you