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  • Jan 9, 2010, 09:52 PM
    ashley112
    How can I tell the date I got pregnant or who might be the father?
    Well I've been in a long realsonship for like three years and things weren't going so good so I decided I would go out and meet someone else, so my boyfriend at the time went to jail on april5th 2009 and I met up with an old time friend on the 7th or 8th. So I had sex with my old time friend from the 8th of april09 until current but I met up with my ex again and had sex with him on may16th2009.. I don't remember the day I found out I got pregnant but my due date is January 23 2010 someone please help me..
  • Jan 9, 2010, 11:39 PM
    mudweiser

    Does your boyfriend KNOW about you cheating on him? If so, I think it's time to let the cat out of the bag and when that baby comes out it's paternity test time.

    Good luck to you.
  • Jan 10, 2010, 03:22 PM
    ashley112

    Which one are you talking about the current or the one from april5th?

    Which one do you think can be the father of my child? The current one?
  • Jan 10, 2010, 03:36 PM
    mudweiser

    I don't think anything.

    You should get a PATERNITY TEST after the baby is born. This is the ONLY way you will know WHO is the father, anything else is just guessing.
  • Jan 10, 2010, 03:53 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    First due dates are just guesses determined by info you provide the doctor based on last period and scans of the baby size.

    It can very by a few weeks, so it appears it cold be either, guess you will have to wait till the baby is born and have DNA tests done
  • Jan 10, 2010, 03:53 PM
    J_9
    If I knew the firs day of that period, I could give you an estimate when you got pregnant. BUT it won't be a scientific guess as to who the father is. You will need a DNA test after the baby is born to determine who the father is.
  • Jan 10, 2010, 04:44 PM
    ashley112
    Im not sure when my last period is or when because I was on the depo birth control shot so there were pretty much messed up. But do you think you can tell me based on my due date? Jan/23/2009/ my only thing is I couldn't have gotten pregnant on april5th because it just wouldn't match up and I would be due earlier.. my guesses are that I got pregnant between April 28th and may4th so it would make my current boyfriend not the one I broke up with on april5th? Does this make a little bit more sense kind of sort of?
  • Jan 10, 2010, 08:04 PM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ashley112 View Post
    Im not sure when my last period is or when because i was on the depo birth control shot so there were pretty much messed up. but do you think you can tell me based on my due date? Jan/23/2009/ my only thing is i couldnt have gotten pregnant on april5th because it just wouldnt match up and i would be due earlier.. my guesses are that i got pregnant between april 28th and may4th so it would make my current boyfriend not the one i broke up with on april5th? does this make a little bit more sense kind of sorta?

    I'm sorry hun, but the only way to tell is by getting a DNA test done after the baby is born.

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