I want to stay with my girl but like she have a kid and she think it's not fair for me because she's 19 and I'm 17 and she said she's lookking for a commitement not a little kid one the reason she saying that because I'm 17 I need help I can't lose her I love her too much for me to lose her

This may sound harsh but honestly this was my first thought on your situation.

When you can learn to type you can learn to step up to the plate and be with a woman who has a baby. She may be right.

You don't want to lose a women that calls you a little kid and does not want to be with you?

Umm..

Sounds to me like she is the kid.. she has a child and she is real young, so in my mind planning is not one of her strong points.

My advice it will be hard but you have to let her go
She sounds so wrong for you

You should be having fun
It should not be like this
And you know it

I hope you do the right thing

Good luck