Hello you I really need help with my relationship. My boyfriend and I ar from different place than USA. His french and he ask me sometime to rub or massage his meaning his cheaks. I find that really unconfortable because its not man like to me but yet I haven't had many experience sexualy. I want to knoe if that normal or not and sometime he ask me to do it from anal and I am virgin or I said no and still saying no. He says the rubbing thing is french thing so I don't know. I try running his butt before but he acted like he was relaxing when I was doing it. You wondering why not ask him and I did several time and he really don't like when I do and he's answer was HELL NO. So please can some 1 please tell me what to do because he's really good to me and he loves me so do I. I don't want to mess up if I don't need to. I am open to suggestion and thanks you...

Try explaining that in a bit more English before you post?

What does your boyfriend want you to do to him? It is not very clear. Does he want to have anal sex with you?

You should not do anything that you don't feel comfortable with,no matter what he says.

I can't understand the post.

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Originally Posted by zzbaby

Hello yall i really need help with my relationship. My boyfriend and i ar from different place than USA. His french and he ask me sometime to rub or massage his meaning his cheaks. I find that really unconfortable because its not man like to me but yet i havent had many experience sexualy. I want to knoe if that normal or not and sometime he ask me to do it from anal and i am virgin or i said no and still saying no. He says the rubbing thing is french thing so idk. I try running his butt b4 but he acted like he was relaxing when i was doing it. Yall wondering y not ask him and i did several time and he really dont like when i do and he's answer was HELL NO. So please can some 1 please tell me what to do because he's really good to me and he loves me so do I. I don't want to mess up if i dont need to. I am open to suggestion and thanX yall................

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Okay, I'm going to give it a try. If my translation is correct please let me know, if it isn't, then correct where I went wrong.

Your boyfriend is french.

He likes his butt cheeks rubbed.

You think it's not manly and you're not comfortable with it.

I really don't know what "running his butt" means.

I also don't know what you talked to him about and what he said HELL NO to. I'm guessing that you asked him if he's got homosexual tendencies.

Now for an attempt at an answer.

The butt is a major erogenous zone. Rubbing the butt cheeks, well, I don't know why that would make you uncomfortable, but to each his own. If he's asked you to stick a finger in his butt then that's your call, but let me assure you, it doesn't make him gay. It can be very pleasurable, both for men and for women, if you're careful, gentle and know what you're doing.

Having said all of that, I sure hope you're over 18, use protection and don't do anything you're not comfortable with. If he loves you he'll understand.

R. E. S. P. E. C. T (to tune of Arethra Franklin) Altenweg! (for decifering the meaning) :-)