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  • Jan 7, 2010, 01:31 PM
    itzs4m
    I think she likes me.but she has a boyfriend.
    Long story short. I met this girl over the summer last year, apparently her mom and my mom were good friends back in middle school. We talked a lot via texting and phone calls since she goes to school in another state. She mentioned mentioned about her boyfriend only twice to me... a month flies by, November I started catching feelings for her, I told her about my feelings. She said to me that she felt bad in leading me on and stuff, and that if she met me earlier she would have liked me. Nothing big, by December she told me she got me some presents and she wanted to give them to me, so we planned to hangout on new years day.

    On new years day she comes over to my house (driving over an hr) and we hung out went to the boardwalk and went to the mall, my sister wanted to come with so I took her with me also. At the mall when we would walk our arms and hand would like always touch, I didn't think of it much. We would joke around and laugh a lot. After that we went to my mom's friends house for dinner, they had a dog and me and her would play with the dog I would have the dogs paw in my hand and she would grab my hand, one time she was leaning over and she grabbed the back of my calf. After dinner we went home, decided to build a gingerbread house and while building it she would take the frosting and try to squeeze it on my hand and on my face, we were very playful and laughed a lot we also had a lot of eye contact. We were supposed to watch a movie the same night but since it was getting late and she had an hour drive back home we decided to call it a day. We hugged and said good bye. After she left my sister came up to me and said " she seems to have a lot of fun when she's with you"

    So like I don't know if she likes me, but I feel she kind of does. What do you guys think?
  • Jan 7, 2010, 01:36 PM
    HistorianChick

    Does she have a boyfriend?

    If she has a boyfriend, she is not available. Period.

    If a girl/boy has a boyfriend/girlfriend, she/he is not available. Period.
  • Jan 7, 2010, 01:48 PM
    itzs4m
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by HistorianChick View Post
    Does she have a boyfriend?

    If she has a boyfriend, she is not available. Period.

    If a girl/boy has a boyfriend/girlfriend, she/he is not available. Period.

    Yes, but I'm not going after her. I just asked if she likes me/attracted to me
  • Jan 7, 2010, 01:54 PM
    HistorianChick
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by itzs4m View Post
    yes, but i'm not going after her. i just asked if she likes me/attracted to me

    It shouldn't matter if she likes you or not. She is in a relationship with someone else. You need to respect that.

    If she breaks up with him, then she will be available. At that time you can see if she likes you, but until then, she is not available to like you.
  • Jan 7, 2010, 02:20 PM
    I wish
    Is this the same person?

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  • Jan 7, 2010, 06:45 PM
    jaime90

    You are being very deceptive by not addressing the fact that she has a boyfriend. You should not act this way around another man's woman. The touching, and the flirting needs to stop. She is taken. The first thing you should do when a woman who is taken shows feelings for you by flirting or being 'playfull' is to step up, be a man, and address it: "Sorry, I don't flirt with other guys' girlfriends." Encourage her to be committed to her boyfriend, and not go flirting with other guys. Both of you are leading each other on.

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