Controlling pug with severe toilet and dominance issues; I'm desperate!
hello
I apologise in advance if this is a bit of an essay but I am at my wit's end. I have read quite a few threads in this forum with similar problems, but none of them are as compliacted as my pug.
I have a ten month old pug who has been living with me and my partner for the past four months. We got him when he was six months, and although I was prepared to be doing a lot of cleaning and training, I didn't realise it would be this bad.
generally I feel as if my pug is trying to control me and become the leader of the household. I live in an apartment on the third floor, and I suffer with a chronic bad back, so my pug uses a litter tray, which he goes to every time he needs to use the toilet and he is always praised and sometimes gets a treat if he does. He does go on regular walks outside and to the park and will go on grass and concrete happily.
however, when it comes to going in his crate, it is a different story. For the first two months, he had constantly messed in his bed and would lay in it and eat it. I would get up in the morning, wash his crate and have to bathe him because he was absolutely plastered. Then soon he seemed to get the idea that messing his crate was getting him nowhere and he started to have dry nights for awhile.
instead of messing, he started barking. He barked from 5am until 12 midday until his voice became hoarse. I could not go into the living room to have breakfast and go about my day because I had to wait for silence. So we bought a training aid that emits an ultrasonic noise when he barks. Unfortunately, as soon as we started using it, although the barking stopped, the messing started again. And within the last two weeks, he has started barking again, but not as bad as he used to.
every morning, I have to get up, clean his crate and bathe him. I don't understand why he is doing this. The crate is very small, small enough for him to stand and lay down but there is no room for a poo corner. He urinates and defecates in it and will lay in it. By the morning, he is absolutely covered and I am sick of having to clean him because it is repulsive. I KNOW that he is capable of holding it over night, but he chooses not to. If I put him in the crate for ten minutes to have a shower, he will mess in it. He is not allowed free reign of the house, or even the living room because the last time he was left free in the living room, he climbed onto the sofa and urinated and pooped all over it and was laying in it wagging his tail when I came into the room.
during the first two months he lived with us, he would bite me, pretend to have seizures when he didn't want to do something and if I ignored him, he would vomit or defecate on my feet. He attacked me several times while out in public. This behaviour has sort of stopped. He still whines and barks if I leave the room, even if there is someone else there with him. I can't go anywhere without him having a tantrum. He will stand in random positions in the room and stare at me, waiting for attention, and if I ignore him long enough, he will urinate as if to try and get attention. Sometimes he will go into his crate to toilet as if expecting an reaction out of me. He has learned that I will look at him if he is eating something to make sure it is not dangerous, so he will stand near me and smack his chops to get eye contact.
also, recently, he has started screaming and throwing fits when I bathe him. I have had claw marks down my chest and legs where he has tried to climb out of the bath to get away from the shower. It is not because the water is too hot or too hard, he has just decided he doesn't want to be bathed anymore and I am running out of options because he NEEDS to be bathed every morning.
because he keeps messing in his crate, his back thighs are balding and are covered in severe rashes. I want to change his behaviour because it is depressing me and it is making him ill. Very soon I will have a full time job and he will have to be in the crate while I am away but if this is going to continue, it is going to make his bald patches worse. I won't have time to bathe him every morning. Generally, I am sick of him and am considering selling him, so this is my last resort to find some help. I have had a dog trainer round and followed several dog training guides but nothing has worked and although he makes small progress, he always goes back on it within a week.
I am going to get him castrated as now he is older, he has started chasing es and has been harassing larger dogs. He had a fight wth a large hound on christmas day and I am now wary about letting him off the lead.
he is the first pug I have owned and I have never had a puppy before, only older dogs that were adopted.
if anyone can help, I will really appreciate it and many thanks in advance.