Is OK to date while you are separated?

Yes. You are separated for a reason.

Can you give us more information please?

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Originally Posted by amicon

Can you give us more information please?

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We been living for 11 years, she say she is not sure that she love me and she move out a month a go, now she is going through consuling, and she say that she wants to meet other people to find out if she really love me, and if she come back we can get married. She say is nothing wrong and people do it all the time

Love is a choice. Your partner should've chosen to love you a long time ago. 11 years is too long to live with someone without knowing if you love them or not. It's true that some people do it. If she sleeps with someone while you are separated and then tries to come back there's a good chance she will lose trust with you.

As you are separated what she does is her choice, as what you do is yours. Were you to attempt getting back together,whatever either of you did during the separation is something you'd have to work through when/if that happens.

She move out two other times in the 11 years, for a month, know she say she need more time because the past times was to short , and I feel like if she going out with some body else is cheating, because we trying to fix things out,

How are you trying to work things out? If she's moved out and is in counselling for herself,it seems to me that she's working on herself,not the relationship.

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Originally Posted by amicon

How are you trying to work things out? If she's moved out and is in counselling for herself,it seems to me that she's working on herself,not the relationship.

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That's what I think, because I suggest that we should do it together, but she say she need space and she need to work her things out first, she got a lot of pressure from her sister,

Thank you amicon

You're welcome Jose'-I'm signing off now.
Take care.

In the words of Yoda "Separated you are, date you must"

You wait 11 years to go through this crap? Sorry guy, but disappear, and do your thing, and don't even worry about working things out. Why?

If any one needs to stop even talking to someone its YOU!!