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  • Jan 3, 2010, 05:25 PM
    charrlottiee
    Is it wrong to fancy your step brother?
    It is quite hard to emplain but I facey my step brother :/
    Last year in about July we were both really drunk at some place in sussex and we had to share a tent anyway with a friend of the family as well. When we were outside it was really cold and I was shivering I don't remember how but we ended up holding hands then when we went back to the tent we kissed. Then a few months later he came out as gay :/.
    He is 19 and I am 15, I fancey him and even though he has come out as 'gay' I still catch him looking at me and when we go on long car journeys we always cuddles up together :/ but I don't no is it wrong?
  • Jan 3, 2010, 05:59 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Wrong in just too many ways,
    Step brothers should be treated and respected just like you would a regular blood brother
  • Jan 4, 2010, 08:17 PM
    talaniman

    He is your brother, gay or not, Fancy him as such, and don't cross the lines of good behavior, being drunk is no excuse for being stupid, or doing wrong.
  • Jan 8, 2010, 04:39 PM
    36

    You kissed your brother, that is wrong and even if he liked you back what are you going to do go out then you have to tell your parents I think he should go his way and you should go your way
  • Jan 8, 2010, 04:43 PM
    HistorianChick

    This just sounds like a bad re-run of the Alicia Silverstone movie, Clueless.

    It's wrong. He is your brother.

    You're only 15. Focus on school and find a boy your age that is interested in the same things as you.

    Don't mess around with your brother.
  • Jan 9, 2010, 10:56 AM
    cdad

    Stay away from drinking. At your age you shouldn't be doing that anyway plus the added factors of clouded judgement and addiction. Teens are much more prone to become alcoholics then when later in life.
  • Aug 20, 2010, 04:21 AM
    rhodriM68
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by charrlottiee View Post
    it is quite hard to emplain but i facey my step brother :/
    last year in about july we were both really drunk at some place in sussex and we had to share a tent anyway with a friend of the family aswell. when we were outside it was really cold and i was shivering i dnt remeber how but we ended up holding hands then when we went back to the tent we kissed. then a few months later he came out as gay :/.
    he is 19 and i am 15, i fancey him and even tho he has come out as 'gay' i still catch him lookin at me and when we go on long car journeys we always cuddles up together :/ but i dont no is it wrong?

    Right for starters you are 15 you hormones are still going strong but him being gay might be a good thing because you will never go out with him so that helps you but the reason he cuddles you is becccause he does love you but not in that way and you can talk to him about guys it is very useful if you're a girl but to aboy that is just sick by the way alcohol makes you do things you wouldn`t normally do what it meens is he does love you but alcohol made you and him love each other more there is nothing wrong with it it`s just you need to talk to him about itt not us we are people you don't know so we can only tell you our opinion just talk to him about it I think he will understand so if I were you I would be :cool:
  • Aug 20, 2010, 04:26 AM
    rhodriM68
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    He is your brother, gay or not, Fancy him as such, and don't cross the lines of good behavior, being drunk is no excuse for being stupid, or doing wrong.

    Lay off the girl she`s only a kid when I was her age I was as bad as her I used to drink tons smoke she doesn't know wats happening he hormones are doing this so stopp:mad::mad:

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