Me and my boyfriend Kyle are very happy to be together with each other. We met on the internet four months ago and then we met in person about a month ago. He visited me an entire month and the whole time we grew close and became inseparable. He was into it. Then he had to go back to Oklahoma and now we're back in a long distance relationship. We both miss each other and he can't wait to see me again. Last night on the phone I kept asking him What's Wrong? & Is Everything Ok? I think I asked about 3 times. He kept saying yea babe. Do you think it couldve got annoying? If I keep asking this everyday is this going to annoy and push him away? Also, one day me and him were talking and he said he could tell when I beat myself up on the inside over relationships. He said I shouldn't do that cause Im a wonderful girlfriend.It also makes him feel like he did something wrong, when he didn't. So when I ask Is Everything Ok? And What's Wrong? Do you think this could be making him feel bad? I don't like making him feel bad when he didn't do anything and neither did I. Please reply and help me out. ThanYou verry much.

Stop asking if everything is okay. Just let him know that you're there for him if he needs you, then let it drop.

I guess you're a bit insecure and ask for the sake of some kind of reassurance-but don't,it could make a person feel put out so stop asking,there's no need.
Enjoy your relationship!

Find other topics of conversation that doesn't feed your insecurity, or have you tripping when he doesn't sound so interested or seems distant. LDR's will have you tripping.

If you feel something might be wrong, ask once. If he says everything is fine, leave it at that. There's nothing wrong with showing concern, but over doing it can be annoying.

Yes it can be annoying, and before long, if you keep asking, things will become wrong perhaps

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

yes it can be annoying, and before long, if you keep asking, things will become wrong perhaps

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Isn't that the truth. After a while, even though nothing was wrong, the fact that she keeps asking will turn into what's wrong.