So I've been with my boyfriend for some time now and when I first met him I knew he smoked weed but it wasn't until we actually started dating that I realized he smoked between 20 and 40 bowls a day because he has his own crop (he has his medical card to grow his own) well he eventually cut down to only a couple times a week and I'm so paranoid all he ever does is smoke because all of his friends are always over (who always smoke) and his mom smokes too. Then one day he and I got in a huge fight (almost broke up) and I got him back but one of my deals with him was that I would smoke with him at least once a day when I move in with him... I'm not sure of my question whether its should I make him quit all together? Or if its should I really smoke? (if I don't he's just going to know I lied to him to get him back) or what I should do? He says he loves me but I guess not enough to quit for me? Ah I don't know!!