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  • Dec 31, 2009, 01:13 AM
    Ash2013
    Pregnant an 15
    I'm 15 I think I'm pregnant. I'm still with the guy but I don't know how to tell him.or let alone mine an his parents.
  • Dec 31, 2009, 01:20 AM
    hheath541

    Have you taken a pregnancy test? Seen a doctor?
  • Dec 31, 2009, 01:24 AM
    Ash2013
    Pregnant an 15
    I'm 15 I'm pregnant. I don't no how far alone I am.
    I quit smoken because of the baby.
    If I didn't quit soon anough well that hurt the baby?
  • Dec 31, 2009, 01:41 AM
    Ash2013
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by hheath541 View Post
    have you taken a pregnancy test? seen a doctor?

    I've taken a text
    It said yes
    I haven't seen a docter
  • Dec 31, 2009, 01:46 AM
    J_9
    Time to talk to your mother and have her take you to the doctor.
  • Dec 31, 2009, 01:54 AM
    hheath541

    You will need to tell your parents, soon. If you are pregnant, you're going to need a LOT of help and support in the coming months, or years if you keep the baby.

    I would suggest telling your parents before telling the father. The last thing you want is for him to freak out and you have no other support. You also don't want your parents hearing about it through a rumor and confronting you about it. You'll need them as calm and supportive as possible, and the best way to achieve that is to tell them soon and on your terms.

    Be prepared for the father to bolt. I'm not saying he will, just that you should be prepared for the possibility. He's young and will panic. The first thing he will likely ask is, 'are you sure it's mine?'

    You need to stay calm when you're telling people. If you start freaking out and yelling or crying, it'll only make things worse. You can break down later, but when you first tell them you need to be as calm as possible. The calmer and more prepared you are to answer any questions they may throw at you, the less likely that things will go badly.

    It won't be easy. There will be shock and anger and disbelief, and possibly accusations. You have a tough time ahead of you.

    I wish you the best of luck.

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