I've slept with 21 men, does that make me a slapper?? I'm 26 years of age and just can't seem 2 find the rite person ?

No, it makes you a SAMPLER.

Just protect yourself, and be safe.

Thanks!,

No it doesn't, but (in case you think this) you shouldn't think having sex with a guy you find attractive is the key to find the right guy either.

Well since you were not having sex at 10, how many a month, or differnent men the same day, do you take money for having sex, not enough info, only you know the morals of why you are doing what you are doing

Id slept with 4 people up to being the age of 17,then got in a serious relationship for 2 and half years in which I got heartbroken ,we then split up and since then I haven't had a serious relationship ,iveonly just got over the break up completely I went a bit off the rails, 2 of the lads was on hoilday, and 6 of the lads have been lads my ex partner are friends with, and the rest of the lads are either lads I've met out on nights out or just friends of friends ! I've always used protection so I've never been damaged in that way just feel used looking back now of how stupid I've been ,I've never charged for sex and never slept with 2 people in 24 hours!! I just don't seem 2 learn from this as I'm still making the same mistakes!!

What do you think are your mistakes?

Do you date?

My mistakes are the 21 men I've slept with ,

I've been out with 2 people since being 17 one of which I was with long term the other was just a week,, and I've never been on a date!!

You can't change your past, only your future.

Thank u

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Originally Posted by vickiebrooks123

my mistakes are the 21 men ive slept with ,

ive been out with 2 people since being 17 one of which i was with long term the other was just a week ,,,and ive never been on a date !!!

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stop sleeping with guys in your own town.. esp friends of your ex,guys talk, your being shared around... thats the first step.

whatever YOU think about yourself,is what other people will see..

do you think your easy?

we all make mistakes,you made the same mistake 21 times by your own ommission..

my advice,take 6 months off from guys... seriously.
hit the gym,work your ar*e off in work or college,set achievable goals for yourself..
this is going somewhere,stay with me... the more value you place on yourself,the happier you are on your own (on your own is important)... you more then double your chances of meeting a guy who wants a women HE can value.

I'm going to take your advice, and I will come back in 6 months and let you know I'm a changed person, thanks for all the advice..

If you keep an eye on your post other people will give you loads of tips and advice.

Thanks I will do, thanks again for your help!