I like this girl. I am very shy. I don't think she likes me. Right now we are in the friend zone. She was in my class last year. How should I ask her out. Also, do you think I'm ready in middle school.

Most middle schoolers are not ready to ask a girl out. If you're going to stay with a girl, and be truly committed to her, that will mean you're relationship ending in marriage, not in a break-up. Why don't you keep things at friendship level until you get older? Friends before lovers- that's the best way to go. Learn as much about her as you can while you are friends. (hangout, learn about girls, and gain their trust, the perks of dating, without the physical contact and emotional involvement that often ends in heartbreak.) Wait to date, until you are sure it is lasting. Very, very few high school relationships end in marriage. Most people don't find serious relationships, or their future spouse until college, or after.

I think you're ready for group dates and chaperoned dates. There's no reason why you shouldn't be allowed to spend time with this girl if you follow the rules.

But before any of that can happen, just ask if she want's to hang out. :)

I qas in that situation as well, first just keep it cool with her then hang out with her often and make her feel special by making her laugh and saying she's pretty. But don't fall in LOVE because your too young for that. You will know when to ask her out :)

Is it better to hang out with a group of girls that she is in and become friends with the others too?

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Is it better to hang out with a group of girls that she is in and become friends with the others too?

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Yes I think that is fine. If she thinks your a good boyfriend then she won't get jelous if you become close to her friends.

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Originally Posted by kas_100

yes i think that is fine. if she thinks ur a good bf then she won't get jelous if u become close to her friends.

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This is an old thread. Kas we're glad you're here, but please don't use text speak. Welcome to the forum.:)

Don't come to her let her come to you try to sit near her say hi then if you see she likes you if she deose then you make a move hopwed I helped :)

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yes i think that is fine. if she thinks ur a good bf then she won't get jelous if u become close to her friends.

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Kas no chat or text speak it's against the rules.:)

Enjoy being young. High School is the time to think about dating.

Honey, before you get into anything serious, just become friends with her. If you feel like your ready for dating you can go for iit, but you should make sure she actually likes you first.

Funky28

I think that you should wait a little while before asking her out. Become closer with her. Become her best friend. Make sure that she knows that she can trust you and that you will always be there for her.