Leaving at mother in law´s house is good idea for you?

Do you mean "living" at mother in law's house?

Or leaving? Leaving what?

Yes living... Im so sorry for that .

Not a good idea for me. While I love my MIL to death, their house is too small for me, my husband and my 2 children.

Well I wouldn't mind living at my Mother in laws house, seeing as she passed on and the house is empty.

Now, if she was alive, no way! I think it's important to be the head woman in my house. I wouldn't be able to live by her rules because it's her house.

Do you live there now or are you thinking about moving in with her to take care of her?

Where do you live, where is husband living now ?
Is there money troubles that require this, or does MIL need a caregiver to help her.

Also what culture, since with some families living together is more common.

We are actually living in my mother in law´s house for 8 yrs. She has this nerve problem and we need to look after her for that. But the problem is, we are the one who looking her after, but all her pension money is in the hands of my sister in law who is not living with us. The worst thing of all, the house of my mother in law is already written in my sister in law´s name (without our knowledge).

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Originally Posted by tesyo74

We are actually living in my mother in law´s house for 8 yrs. She has this nerve problem and we need to look after her for that. But the problem is, we are the one who looking her after, but all her pension money is in the hands of my sister in law who is not living with us. The worst thing of all, the house of my mother in law is already written in my sister in law´s name (without our knowledge).

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So the main issue is that you want to be paid for looking after your MIL.

Well, talk to her, or move out and tell the sister in law to move in and care for her mother, seeing as she's the one being paid.

The only way the property could have been legally transferred is for your MIL or someone with her power of attorney agreed to the transfer. Is your MIL competent? Is she aware? Does she know the property was transferred?

If her pension is going to the SIL, then she likely has power of attorney. Why was this not given to your husband when you moved in?