Mine is five years of marriage. I have one year old baby. My mil is humiliating my parents. She always backbites about me with others. My fil take sides of her. My husband didn't have the courage to speak in front of his parents. Both my fil, and my hubby are asking me to change as she could not change.

By neha

You tell the guys that she is queen of her house, but in yours, you are the queen. Whomever doesn't like it, can leave, and not come back. That goes for hubby!!

Tell hubby boy to start being a man and stand by his wife.

If they are asking you to change, I guess that means they want you to accept the disrespect shown to your parents as 'normal', and not say or do anything about it.

That of course, is bass-ackwards.

What options do you have. You must have thought of something- I hope.

I get the impression that maybe you are living in your husbands parents home?

You must not put pressure into yourself just to impress your mil otherwise it will goes into wrong ways/direction... just relaxed,keep it cool and most of all no matter what happens BE YOURSELF ALWAYS!!