Was dumped over a spare key.suggestions?
This is going to be a lot to take in so please have patience when reading...
My g/f and I have been going through ups and downs for the past 6 months. We were in a 5.5 year relationship. We do not live together. She works 2 jobs. She has 2 hours in between jobs. On Saturday morning, she stated that she got off at 2:30am and that if I were coming back to her apt, to just take the key so that I could be there when she got home. I took the key, but it was pretty bad outside(snow) so I didn't make it over I stayed at home.
I sent her a text around 9pm... she got off her first job at 8. I texted her to ask if she was still at work... she replied "no.......why?"... and then I stated it was because I hadn't heard from her... and she replied... "when you're at work, you dont always call me on your breaks or lunches"... I then replied... "you are not on break or lunch, you are off"... she then replied... "where are you? what are you doing?"... I then asked what she was doing and stated the mind starts to wonder when you don't reply, and then I said "if u werent at your first job or second job, or not at home, where are you?" 2 hours later she replied stating that she wasn't at any of those because she was driving to work and that the problem is I don't trust her... I then said if you could do all that texting while driving, WHY could you just not have Called? Hours go by and she gets off at 2:30AM... she calls me around 3 and asked if I had her spare key... I said yes... She replied... "Bring my key back tommorrow!!!" and hung up the phone on me... the next morning she sent a text saying "Bring my key back today!.....i told her she didnt have to remind me.....at 4:00pm she calls me and asks what I am doing....i said i was at the mall....she then replies: "Bring my key to my job"! I texted her and stated I would just drop it off to my aunt who stays across the hall.....
I went over my aunts and vented about this situation....My g/f calls and says: "where is my key?? "......i said i dropped it off over my aunts.....she then says "you are such a punk a#@ bit$% and hung up and me... then she calls my aunt... (I'm still over there at my aunts but had not given my aunt the key yet)... she calls back and calls me a liar, and says she hates me, and wants me out her life for lying... she then called my aunt back and my aunt stated the key was just dropped off...
My g/f's issue was that I told her when she called that the key was already dropped off, when in fact I had not dropped the key off until after she hung up the phone with me which was in 1 min incriment... thats how quick my aunt got the key. As I stated I was already over there...
I then got highly upset at her insulting words towards me and said "dont bother me anymore you stupid bi%$D, i'll get better sex somewhere else"... you have to understand I was very heated... I then said "if you see me out at the clubs, dont stalk me"... she then replied: "if you see who i've been making love to, dont stalk me"... and then 20 minutes later she sends a text saying: "i was lying about that, but I can't stand you...you lied to me....you dont deserve my live, and you never did!"
I still was heated... I then sent her a text saying: "I dont want to hear from you again, if you need to reach me you can looking me up on this dating site", and gave her my screename... I joined a dating hook-up site at this moment because I was fed up.
These last 2 days, I have been sending her texts(as she's at work) trying to understand what happened, apologize for my part with the words I said, and said we both said cruel things"... she will not reply... the only thing she has replied to was when I asked her to return my video that we rented as I did not want a late charge. She said that she would... any other thing I text her about she will not reply...
I called off work these last 2 days to drink all day as I could not concentrate at work. IIve cancelled friend invites to the gym and parties today, because I'm just depressed and wonder what she's doing, and why she won't respond...
Please offer any assistance possible, I can't seem to stop this worrying, drinking, and wondering if I had just been over there Saturday night, maybe this would not have happened... I have not eaten since Monday, but keep drinking alcohol
