I know that we make mistakes trying to bring up our kids but really that attitude my son has toward me as his mom would hurt any concerned mom. He acts like is is ashamed of me and i get this idea some how that he hates me too.,I am so proud of him getting into a great college due to rotc air force but I really am quite baffled about his attitude toward me and sometimes his dad. Mom in Massachusetts

Have you talked to him about your feelings and expressed how his actions are making you feel?
What sort of things is he doing to make you feel this way?
A little more information would help to give a more complete answer.