I love my mam but she always sticks up 4 my little sister and I always get blamed and grounded because of her

Hi, rachiii!

What's the difference in age between you and your little sister, please? Also, has your sister done things that are like what you might have done in the past where you know that you were in the wrong in doing them?

Thanks!

If you're the eldest,it is sometimes the case that we expect more as parents...

I know I did with my eldest... try not to take it to heart,talk to your mother,and let her know why you think its unfair,maybe she has a good reason.

Hi, redhed35!

I couldn't spread the "love" to you so soon... But, your answer was very heartfelt and full of understanding, based upon experience.

Thanks!

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by rachiii

i love my mam but she always sticks up 4 my little sister and i always get blamed and grounded because of her

---

Hate is a very strong word. I think that as children we feel that way sometimes when our parents do things that we don't understand. Being a parent is not easy and sometimes we don't always come across in the best of ways. Maybe you should try expressing your feelings to your mom if you think she would be open to listening and discussing your concerns. Hold her hand when you are talking to her, your message will come across much softer in its approach.

If you feel nervous talking to your mom about this issue try writing her a letter and explain how it makes you feel. If you would like you could also as her to write you back with her response. Sometimes with situations like this it is much easier to get your thoughts on paper and to be able to organize your thoughts and feelings

Hopefully, rachiii will return to address the answers that have been given.

Write a letter to your mom and tell her how yo feel. That's what I did with my problem.