Originally Posted by wynd0w
I just had a question for anyone that might know...
I had a child almost eight years ago, with a man that is pretty worthless.
He has Never been a part of his life, every 2 years we get a phone call or possilbe visit.
I truly believe this to be effecting my son in a very neg. way. Did i mention that he has 5 children total, with 5 different mom's. He's not even 40. My question is... is there a way to make him sign away his rights? My son has his last name on the birth certificate, but has gone by mine since the day he was born. We were never married. He is ruining my son's self asteem, and we need closier to this. What do i do? He's told me that he'll never give him up, but he's never even there... it's like wanting to 'own' the dog, but not feeding it...
I need help with this, someone once told me that in order to get him to give up his rights, i'd have to get married, and my 'then' husband would have to adopt him... Why do i have to do that? He's selfish... i've never asked or rec'd a dime... please help...